How do I tell my Mom I may be pregnant?

I just turned 15 years old and my hormones went crazy one night and now I might be pregnant. How do I tell my mom without being face to face with her alone cause she scares me when I tell her something she doesn’t want to hear. I’m not saying she is abusive, I’m just saying she just plain up scares me. But how do I tell her without being face to face with her? Please this is urgent.

Answer #1

first go 2 the docter and make sure!..but then if you find out you are write her a long letter telling her about the situation and how you dont want her to hate you..just bascilly write a letter from your heart about you being pregnant..then put it in her purse or something that she’ll find. so when she gone somwhere and be looking throught her purse she’ll read it and think about it while she out or by herself then she’ll probelly come talk 2 her yourself.or call you.and she would understand it worked for my lil sister she got pregnant at 14 years old..my mom was madd at first but then she came and had a long talk with her but it wasnt that bad.

Answer #2

First find out if you really are pregnant. There’s no sense in yelling “FIRE” in a crowded room if there isn’t a fire if you know what I mean.

Answer #3

Have a sex talk with your mom and see how she takes it. Then if she takes it hard give her a whilke but if she takes it okay, just straight out tell her.

                                aubrey
Answer #4

ok thats tricky if your gonna tell make sure that ur sure about it and once you then just be honest tell her adult to adult i know wats its like but if ur mom loves you she be able to help you when i was 16 my mom thretenhed me that if i got pregnant that id have to give the baby up and then last year she thought i was pregnant i knew i wasnt cuz at the time i wasnt sexually active but she sore i was pregnant cuz i had missed my period for 5 months she told me that she would help if i was and if your mom loves u shell do the same shell do anything to help her daughter it cant hurt to just tell her

Answer #5

i would get to now first if you are pregnant because there is no point in telling your mum your pregnant if your not. Im 15 and i now have a 1 year old baby girl and another one on the way and im really happy with my partner. I think you sould tell her and if she goes mad its understandable because shes probily thinking how could this happen to my baby my mum went crazy but now shes sound. good luck

Answer #6

Call her. Go to a friends house and stay there for a while. Then call her and tell her . Explain to her how you fell about it too

Answer #7

find out and let me know write me at hcsistrunk@yahoo.com and we can talk

Answer #8

Hi Gorgeous.

I would like to tell you a cheap and very effective way of testing pregnancy and then you wont have to deal with all the mess and worry about dumping it. But you need to take it seriously.

Get a banana and insert it in your that place, if you get the banana in whole as it was before, everything would be nice and smooth and nothing to worry about, if not then .. congrats!! a monkey is on the way :P

Hope that would help.

Answer #9

I know it’s tough to tell someone news they really don’t want to hear. However, I agree with most of the people, get tested first! Use a OTC pregnancy test and make sure. If you are pregnant, tell your mom that you want to talk to her; but since you mom scares you when you give her bad news, have her meet you at a public place, like at a park or at the mall’s food court. Meeting in a public place may discourage her to create a scene and may actually help you to convince your mom to talk about this in a calm manner. Be open with your mom and tell her that you need her help.

Answer #10

just tell your mom. I was the same way and she was mad but she was still glad that I told her instead of keepin that from her. and if you scared of tellin her now how do you think shes gonna react if she has to find out on her own. and if your not you should tell her she you can have some birth control…

Answer #11

Well i am seventeen and i would just tell her mom i really need to talk to you about something and it would mean alot to me if we could act like adults about this.. and see where it goes from there

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