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I miss you daddy

my dad is crazy. I dont understand why he does what he does to me. he left the family when I was 7 and he has been on crystal meth. I love him but its so hard to say it. he used to hurt me some. emotionally more. he still says terrible things. I cry a lot cause of it. I miss him. and people say,, why dont you just get over it. but what they dont understand is that I cant get over it. I want my daddy back. the one who sat me on his knee when I was six and said he would always be there for me. I dont even know who he is know. what he has become is far different from the person that he was. I just dont know what to do

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Answer #1

Well some dads are like that! They screw up there life but don’t let it interfear with yours! If he wants to hurt himself don’t let it hurt you! But when he left you and started doing meth doesn’t mean he stopped loving you!

                     You are still probaly daddy's lil princess!
Answer #2

oh, baby girl, have you told him this ? Sometimes parents need help even if they don’t admit it. tell him how you feel. tell him you miss your father.

I wish you the best of luck.

Answer #3

omg girrrl, you pooor thingg. I cant really say I feel your pain, but I kinda do. my dad emotionally abuses my whole family, especially my mother. he calls her stupid, worthless, and puts her down everyday. I dont know why he does it, but it hurts my whole family. it hurts me to think about the old times when he was my hero and I was daddys little girl. but the other day my whole family sat down and calmly talked about whats bothering us. hes been nicer ever since ..talk to your dad. tell him hes hurting you. tell him exactly how you feel. hopefully he opens his eyes and listens. good luck girl

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