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Why I miss my mom?

I am an 18 year old girl and I ave never live with my mother cuzz I grow up with my grandmother but since september I went and live with her and by the middle of october I add to move out because of arguments and go and live with my aunts and now I really miss her…recently I tried working thing out with her and she said she doesnt want me in her life…cause things will never be the same…but for some reason I still miss her… I juss cant get over her…and she don’t even care about me… Should I juss leave her alone or should I still try to have a relationship with her…

Help pls thank u

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Answer #1

Talk to her. She needs to know you love her, and I bet you do. Just let her know that you care about her, and that you won’t stop that anytime soon. Go out of your way to be nice to her.

Answer #2

Sometimes, honey, we need to realize that a “parent” is not the person who gave birth to us, but is the person who loves us, cares for and about us, and is there for us when we need them. It would be really wonderful if your birth mother could give you these things, but, for some reason, she doesn’t appear to want to (even some adults can’t handle the responsibility of a relationship), so don’t tear up your heart trying to make things out to be something they aren’t. I agree with the above commenter that you should talk to her about it, but please realize that, if she doesn’t want to be around you, it has NOTHING to do with who YOU are! It’s something that’s missing in her. Best wishes, my young friend! I will keep you in MY heart, OK?

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