I'm 16 and pregnant. My mom understands, but my dad doesn't know..

the baby is due in 6 months. the father of the baby is very supportive and has stuck with me all the way. it wasnt my first time having sex but I swear on my life it was an accident. dont call me stupid. I made sure it was with the right guy and you know I did because if I was having sex just for the heck of it he would have left by now. we’ve been dating for 7 months. what happened was he came over my house to hang out and we decided to go for a walk. when we returned to my house it was dark… and you can guess what happened from there. but see, since it was unexpected.. it was also unprotected. and I was too distracted to even think about getting pregnant. but here I am now, 3 months pregnant.

my mom knows. she was in the bathroom with me while I took my pregnancy test. my moms a very understanding person. it was a very emotional, awkward night where me and her immediately started crying our eyes out. she knows it was an accident, and she promised me she will do everything she can to help me with the baby. so yes, im keeping it. I think?

me and my mom sat down and had a chat. my father is a very strict man with very strict boundaries. I bet you anything he thinks im still a virgin. I get good grades, and he never hears about stupid choices I’ve made. I only have a little sister, cassidy. she’s seven and is daddys perfect little girl. so my dad doesnt really pay attention to me all that often. he yells at me if I get a b on my report card. he yells at me if I accidentally drop something that’s not even breakable. he yells at me for almost everything now. how am I to tell him im pregnant and there’s no way in hell im giving up the baby? if I say “well mom said I could keep it!” he will start yelling at my mom, too. there is no negotiating, settling, and/or compromising with my dad. its his way or the highway. me and my mom both have no idea how to tell him. any ideas?

Answer #1

I think it will be OK. Tell him and get it over with. And you keep that baby. From here on in you worry about you and your baby. That baby is your best friend and you will know it the minute you see him or her. xoxoxo. PS Dad will soften up when he sees his 1st grandchild. The toughest parents make the softest grandparents honey. Just know that he will react HARD when he hears and gradually sooften up . In rare cases, he will take until the nany is born to show any support. Rest assured a grandparent is always happy. PS your mom sounds great. GOOD LUCK

Answer #2

Well, you’re in a difficult situation and a very emotional one. I’m glad that your mother is stepping up to the plate for you, you’re really going to need her. As for your dad, well the sooner you tell him the better. He will be angrier (hard to imagine, huh?) if you wait to tell him. You’re going to have to just say it. Sit him down and tell him that you have something very important to talk to him about. Tell him that you know he’s going to be upset and disappointed in you. Tell him that you made a mistake but you’re going to be responsible now. He’s going to tell you that you should of been responsible before and blah, blah, blah…don’t back down. Tell him what you’re going to do, make sure you have your plan all laid out. He’s going to ask you if he has to now support your child. He’s going to hurt you in every emotional way possible. Just to understand that it’s just going to be his anger and disappointment. Make sure that you do not say your mom knew because he will be angry at her too then. Stay strong and be confident about your decisions.

Good luck

Answer #3

I’m in the same situation, except I havent even told my mom yet, its really hard, I know my dad will beat the living crap outta me. HELP?? Princess X x X

Answer #4

you should tell your dad because he loves you and he would do anything for you. Just because you have a sis that he pays attention to doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about his own daughter

Answer #5

At 16 years old (I’m going based on the laws here, hoping they aren’t much different where you are), your dad can’t really do anything. He’ll probably be angry, but the decision to keep it is yours, and he has no say in the matter.

Answer #6

You should just be honest with your dad as he loves you and proberly will be angry and disapointed ay first but he your dad and he will soften up and be there to support and help you through alongside your mum. your parents are the people you need most of all when things like this happen and also your dad might feel abit upsett that you could go and tell your mum and couldnt come and tell him something important like this. Goodluck!

Answer #7

tell him, and he has NO right to tell you you can’t have your own baby! IT’S BABY NOT A PUPPY!!! When you were younger you beg for a pet, when your older, it’s your choice to keep your baby, not your father’s! Tell him, if he tells you you can’t keep your own child, put up a fight! Don’t let your father control your life. Just keep in mind that your decision will reflect what happens the rest of your life. so chose wisely ( I would have kept the baby BTW), GOD BLESS YOU!!! :)!

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