I'm pregnant and I dont want my mom to hate me.

your mom will prob be mad first. but then after she’ll deff help you. let her down gently. and dont tel her straight out .

you should tell her strait out. just lay down the cards on the table. of coarse she may yell and scream at you. she told you time and again not to put yourself in her shoes. but bc she went through the same thing she will hopefully come around it the end. hiding the pregnancy is the worst thing you can do. you may have betrayed her trust but you are still her daughter. goodluck.

Obviously, she cares about your well being and wants only what’s best for you so Of course she will not hate you. She will be upset and that’s inevitable. Just take some time to talk to her calmly. If you need, go over what your going to say before hand, to make it easier.

My cousin, Megan, is also pregnant. She first got pregnant last year when she was fifteen, but she ended up loosing the baby. She is now pregnant again, at sixteen and everything is fine. She told her mom when she was eight weeks, but she did tell me first. She was crying like she had the first time, because she figured my aunt would be disappointed in her again. The best thing you can do is sit down with your mom, and just let it out. I advise having your boyfriend [or whoever it was] with you for emotional support. My mom would be extremely mad at me, but I’m thirteen so it doesn’t count. Remind your mom that she got pregnant young, and you are going to be an adult and can make your own decisions by now anyways. She’ll be mad, throw a ift, scream and threaten you. but she’ll be okay. And so will you. Best of luck <3

my mom also got preg. at a young age, she told me not to have sex, and she is also like my bestfriend.I think your mom just doesnt want you to end up like her because that is a huge resposibility.It prob. would be a good idea to tell her and hopefully she will understand because she has been in the same situation.