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I hate my life at the moment :'( I would rather die!! help me!!

okay im 16 and my parents are both split up and re married. I stay at m mums house with my mum my step dad and my 13yr old sister and my 4year old sister. I dont get along with my step dad or demi 13yr old sis) I share a room and faye(4yrold) has her own. I hate sharing I dont have my own space im soo stressed and emotional demi uses all of my stuff the other day I caught her wearing my bra!!! I’ve finished school now and going to college in sept demi waked me up everi morning and it drives me crazy!!! its like 7 am and shes goinf hrough my stuff again useing my makeup wearing my clothes arghh! I’ve asked mum if me auing wiv and faye can swap so I av my own room and my own space to chill out in bcz atm im sharing a room with someone im arguing wiv 24/7 if I go down staires me and my step dad argue its acc so annoying I cant go anywhwere, me and demi go to my dads everi other weekend we also share a room there buh its evan smaller ! I dont get any time on my own its making me soo stressed and arghh!! do you think I should b able to have my own room? faye will b going to full time school in sept , and my college dont start til half 9 and I will just keep gettin woken upp by everi 1 I cant cope being woken up by someone bcoz it puts me in a bad mood 4 the rest of the day im soo stressed pleasee help mee!!! =[

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Answer #1

I understand that sharing rooms with your younger sibling is annoying, but honey, live with it. I’ve had teachers molest my friends, hit me and verbally abuse me. Along with my mom not giving a crap, bros taunting me bc im a vegetarian andpeople trying to split me and my bff up. theres so much more. I wanted to die. but I didnt do it, and didnt say I would rather die then try to fix things because (and im sure tons of people say this..) theres people who are killed, molested, raped, beaten, put out on the streets and have terminal deseases. Do you have any of that? If so, you have a reason. if not, get over it. annoyance is NOT the worst thing in the world. Once your at college you’ll probably have a job and car. once you get a house, you can get emancipated. You’ll be free in no time.

Answer #2

I think you should tell it to your mum, your condtion, explain all the things happening to you and to your sister. do it in a nice way so you will not come out as a bad “sistah” owkay? calm down and everything will be fine. focus on your studies

and enjoy college life, it’s very fun! take a deep breath and face the world ^_^

Answer #3

me and youu are like twins in every way…what I do is I ask people nicley to leave me alone and if that doesnt work I ask agian and I get stressed so I take 3 deep breathes and count to ten and ask agian and soon they will give in and bribe your sister tell her that if she doest wake youu up youu’ll give her 1$ every time she lets youu sleep

Answer #4

get some real problems.

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