I dislike how my dad treats me, help?

Ok well I think…no I know My dad hates me We get into fights a lot he has Thrown me across the room b/4 I and I just cant deal with him anymore That last fight we got into he called one Of my best friends fat and so I defended her And yelled at him and he was just like Remember this day paige cause it Will be the last day I will ever talk to you And that was like a week ago and we still haven’t talked And every time he walkes by me he shoves me And I hate hate hate hate him!!!

Help???

Answer #1

talk to your mom if you cant do that then enjoy him being out of your life I mean I HATE my dad too and I would love that if he like just shoved me whenever he saw me and nothing else -no talking to him -no fighting with him -no more anger -no more HIM! I would love it but if it really bothers you then talk to him face to face or write him a note or shove him back (thats what I would do)

Answer #2

you and him really haven’t talked yet…? wow… if it helps I don’t like him either but I’m pretty sure you caan’t talk to your mom aboutit because she would because another fight if you tell your dad I know things will get out of hand but remember whenever something happends im here you can just run to my house…

Answer #3

If you could, speak to your mother about it, if not, write your dad a note or something or if he walks by you again, push him or hit him and see how he likes it. But, I’m afraid if he does that, you’ll get hit back, so, just be calm about things if he starts getting rude with you and such. If your mother is more understanding about your dad, I would confide in her more. Its not right for your dad to treat you like that. I hate my dad also for the things he’s done to me, but, I can’t just hold grudges all my life towards him. That’s what you have to do. Not hold grudges. I know that might be hard to do, but, I’m sure someday he’ll straighten up who knows though since he’s not talking to you. If he does that shoving thing, just shove him right back but, no hitting. So, go to your mother and discuss this with her if you can. If she won’t take time to talk to you, see if you could find another relative to confide in. Oh, if your dad starts getting more violent, you call the police. I know that no family member doesn’t want to be arrested but, maybe that might give him a lesson. Good luck and have a Marry Christmas!

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