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I don't want to lose my mother.

I’m 18 years old and 16 weeks pregnant. I lost my house in foreclosure in early january and I was stuck moving from place to place with my boyfriend, then finally his dad kicked us out and threatened to hit me. To my rescue my grandparents and mom let my boyfriend my animals and myself to move in temporarily. After a few weeks my mom my boyfriend and I got our own place. I love my mom more than life itself, shes been the only person there for me, but she just snapped yesterday and said she was moving out b.c my boyfriend doesnt have a job, but he was laid off and just got a job through a temp service today. She says she doesnt want anything to do with the baby or me because I chose “that piece of crapt” over her and I would never do such a thing, I just didnt want to have to chose between the two. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. If it werent for my mom, I probably wouldnt have even had the strength to even think about keeping a baby. But now that I am I can’t do this without her. Im miserable and all I do is cry. Im afraid its affecting the baby, but all I want is my mom to stay I need her. Please help.

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Answer #1

well the same thing happy to me when I first meet my man I got preg. and moved in with my boyfriend and I was only 18 and my mom said that I am choicing him over here and I cried all the time she said she never wants to even see the baby that was so pain full but I have never sience lived with my mother after that and I dont ask her for anything me and my man stuck together and now our daughter is 5 years old and we have been together for 7 years and also have a son that is two and when I told my mom I was pregnant for him she told me that she would give anything to be in the deliverly room with us and she is so sorry she acted that way the frist time and I now have a good relationship with her I hope you can just stand your ground as a growing women and love you new family and dont let people bring you down not even you own mother good luck and CONGADULATIONS on you new baby to come! he or she is all that should mater to you.

Answer #2

dont worry, everything will be alright ok! even tho you your expecting a baby, doesnt mean your mother doesnt love u! you will always be her daughter and she will always be your mother

Answer #3

theres only 1 answer 4 this- go to hollister and buy a whole outfit I’m a model there!

Answer #4

I think it’s tough when you need to finally leave the nest, but you have to remember something…you’re an adult now, and you have to take responsibility for yourself. Your mom won’t be with your forever, and it’s time you start caring for yourself.

You can fix the relationship with your mother, but you have your own life now - your baby is on the way, and that baby needs it’s father… you have to be prepared to move on and create a life for you, your child, and your boyfriend.

There comes the time when you have to stop depending on mom…that time is now.

Answer #5

Family ALWAYS comes first…

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