I don't fit in anywhere

why would you want to fit in? Being different. and independent is the best things in life.. makes you one of a kind dear.. totally cool to me.. ^_^ be original~

Don’t worry by the start of the new year half of the groups will have broken up. Trust me, at that age people change REAL quick over the summer. Next year it will take you about one week to establish a group of friends. But there is one group that never breaks up, those are groups that you would meet at church.

awww hun I agree keep positive and look for new friends in 8th grade. your still young you need to find your place. ull fit in:)

I think its really rough in grade school and middle school, more then likly, you’ve gone to school with the same group of people since kindergarden (if you havent had to move around a lot) And you have the same group of friends that you associate yourself with since who knows when, and are friends because you played together on the playground. Not to say those kinds of people couldn’t really be a good friend, but at this point you just need to leave yourself open. Its hard to not look at other people you go to school with and automaticly assume you wouldn’t be friends. Once you make it to high school, and you begin to choose your own classes, plus people from other middle schools filtering in, you’ll be around so many new people, and so many people you’ve always went to school with, but never realized you had a common interest with, like playing an instrument, or art, or sports. And I dont think you should pick a ‘group’ to try to fall in with, thats just holds you back. If you get along with someone because you both like basketball, and another person from a different ‘group’ because you bother like to draw, then why not? the more the marrier, right? You dont have to hang out with the same people every single day, basketball game friday night, art show saturday night… the whole world will open up if you dont try to stay in one corner of it. And if one friend doesnt like you because you associate with the other friend, then you’ll just start to learn who the real friends are. You dont even have to consider everybody a friend, and make plans with them all, friendly aquaintenses never hurt. You never know when youll need help getting ready for a math test and know someone just right that could help you out, or someone else to sit with at lunch when your friend is home sick. Just breath easy, and be yourself! EVERYBODY has questioned who they really feel like they are. and it never ends (not in a bad way) but all through your life, youll go to college, you go to work, you go out to clubs, when you have kids and meet other parents at your kids school. Your always going to be meeting new people. Like I said before middle school isnt the greatest because you’re put in with the same crowd of people that the school board picked based on where you live. So dont run away now, you made it this far, you’d only be running away from opportunity.

Do not be interested in people. Be interested in things and ideas.

The process of belonging to something should not always involve people and groups. You must belong to your own principles and dreams before all.

Do not live your life through your friends. Live it through your backbone, ‘cause it is not usually about who you are with. It’s about just who you are.

Good people are everywhere, just open your eyes and you will find them. In the 8th and 9th grades, you will meet people who are even cooler than your old friends.

I respect your love to your friends, but always make sure that, with or without them, you are gonna have a life, okay?

Keep your head up

Greetings from Egypt!

Noblez Chavazelle

Belonging to a group does not define who you are as a person - keep positive !!