How would you tell your parents if you were 14 preg, by rape?

your sister got kicked out because she decided to get pregnant you had no chance and got raped tell your parents but adoption would be a good choice

I am so sorry about the raped thing but you shouldent be telling us this you should be telling your parents and if they loved you they would help you and like some other people said before go to a family member you trust and tell them what happend then thye can help you talk to your parnets. if you need more helpo e-mail me Dav ps: I would like to know what happend if you tell your parents(which you really should) not to be nosey but I am concerd.

Honey I am so sorry. Tell your parents the complete truth, lying is not the answer to anything, trust me I found out the hard way. And yes it is abandonment if they kick you out. Find the child protective services number and have it with you if they threaten to throw you out, well take it out of a pocket and say, you do realize I will call this number if you do throw me out, it is abandonment. You are not alone, you will get through this, trust me. Adoption would be an option that could help but you were raped, so if you want an abortion it is okay. The same thing happened to me and I chose adoption, I couldn’t kill my daughter, but I couldn’t keep her (too many bad memories and I was 15 then), and I know she will lead a happy life. Best of luck

everyone thinks itsthat easy its not okay but I understand and I would like to help.before you tell them your pregnant you have to tell them what happend sit them down say mom dad I was rapped and tell them the story of what happend then tell them that you got prego and them tell them that it wouldnt be fair for you to kick you out because really it wasnt your fault but don’t tell inlss you are ready because if your not then your not none can force you just tell them break it down step by step you feel me anymore question just send me a essage I would b more than likely to help an trust me the dude that raped me got me prego and told me that he would kill me if I ever told anyone okay sooo wait until you are confortable an then talk if you need more help im always her and I was 13 then and now im 14 so ik what your going threw

1. tell them you were raped
2. Pretned you have no idea that your pregant yet
3. A feww days later take the test agin and tell your parents that your pregant if its settled in there head that you were raped and your distressed and then days later your pregant they mite feel pity. if they kick you out call kids help phone cause thats illigal

I agree with haloyeah. why didn’t you tell your parents you got raped from the beginning? you probably thought you were not pregnant and that’s why, but there is no excuse for any of that. you need to go get checked (again, if already gone) especially to make sure you don’t have anything. you have to tell your parents. and if they kick you out, that is indeed like others said, it’s child neglect, especially at age 14. if you have to, before you tell them, stay with a good and close friend and relax before you do. but you have to tell them, that you need them the most right now.

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Well you got raped. If that is what happened why did you not tell your perents you had gotten raped from the biggining? It has been 4 weeks and you didn’t tell your perents. Just explain to them what happened and I’m sure in this case they will accept what is going on, because if you were raped, and got pregnet, and they still kick you out then they need to get checked. Meaby talk to a close firend or another relative of what happened and meaby they can help you out on explaining this to your perents. Also if they don’t believe you, you could always take a test to get prof that you did get raped.

im very sorry ; [ but seriously…this isnt an accident this isnt that the condom fell off its: YOU WERE RAPED : [ and it wouldnt be fair for them to kick you out you are 14 and I understand in your sisters case but maybe what happned to your sister was different than what happned to you! I really think you should tell them getting rapped at ANY age is EXTREMLY scarring and you really should talk to someone about it.

Well, Im sure it’s extremely scary, but first of all, If you don’t want an abortion, you dont HAVE to. And second of all, they can’t kick you out. Thats abandonment. The best thing to do at this point is to set them down and talk it out, if you were raped, I wouldn’t think they would be too upset (At you). And are you sure you are? you can always get a friend or family member you trust to take you to a free clinic

Good luck and I hope this helped!