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I am 14, tired of parent drama, I have offers from family to move.

My mom and dad both stress me out. and I hate my moms boyfriend. but no matter what I say it wont work. I have offers from family to live with them and they both have good schools.My parents are currently divorced and talk about each other all the time. I want out of it all. But mom would never let me go. what could I do? cani just tell her im moving and leave? I dont know what to do! please help.

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that’s a tough…your parents should NOT be doing that to you. I have my own family problems and I have to deal [my dad], buts its nothing like your story so it must be very stressful…one thing you can do is talk to your mom. if you have a good bond with her then talking might be easier. but since you said that “no matter what you say it wont work” then it might not be so easy. but the thing is communication is the most important thing in this situation b/c your mom and dad are probably only thinking about themselves right now [b/c of the divorce], so you have to also think about how hard it is for them. but don’t let them forget you either.

So bascially what I would do is: since you live with your mother, I would talk to her alone, and just talk about how you feel and why [be dramatic by the end–almost breaking into tears], and then tell her what YOU want (like if you would want to move to live with family or something). Hope I helped. :]

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