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How to help my girlfriend who is physically abused by both parents?

How to help my girlfriend with abusive parents she needs to get put but is to afraid to

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Answer #1

well it is hard, my dad used to abuise me and my brother alott. for no reason in fact, im only 14 and I finally got out of the house at 11. but things have been so harddd for me. moving, counscaling,money, and everything, its all very stressfull.and about the time my mom finally decided she needed to get us out of there, it was a bit to late. my life is sort of ruined from what I’ve seen and what has been done to me. but if you dont want this to happen to her it would be better and help her more if you tlked to her about it, and told her your gonna be there for her no mater what. yes there’s a chance she could be sent to a foster home. but she needs to do what would be right for her, and maybe she will need some help along the way. and that is where you can help. tlk to her about it, help her decided what would be right. just do the best you can, when it comes to times like this, its hard to know what to do especially when your not in there position. but all you can do is pray and help.

Answer #2

my friend is was in the same situation if the abusing is still going on she needs to find someone she can live with eithier a friend or and aunt uncle or even grandparent.its really sad that its happening to her.I hope that everything works out god bless her shes very brave but now she nneds to make sure she lives and protects herself. also its extremlysweet of you to care.

Answer #3

You really seriously need to have something done about this. This is her life, if it is really as threatening as you say, then call child protective services. Just look them up in the phone book or online for the number in your area. This is very serious. You have to be there with her all the way through this because she will only have you and her close friends. You need to make her feel loved, give her flowers and just sit with her if she needs to cry or talk. Protect her, she will need it. Her parents are not fit parents if they abuse her. She may be placed in foster care, make sure she dosent get sent away.

Answer #4

You dont call the cops, you call child protective services. Different people, they will investigate, even if it is a cop. It may be helpful to have physical evidence. If he strangled her hard enough for her to black out, she’s probably got marks on her neck. Take pictures.

Answer #5

Well her parents took all the phones away from her and she doesn’t want the cops involved cause her dad is a sheriff so it wouldn’t help she is also to scared to leave her room she won’t even talk to a counsiler well one at school her grandma is even to afraid to come get her

Answer #6

tell the girl to call the police and tell them thats hses being phsically abused from there if whats happening is nad enough, they will arrest her parents and make her stay with a relative or other family member

Answer #7

It was already life threatening today he strangled her and she blacked out

Answer #8

How old is she? If she in her teens she really should tell her parents shes older now its silly and useless for them to do this

Answer #9

She is 15 and she has

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