How to deal with my Mom?

Mom is a person who gets mad in 2 seconds!! Today in the morning, I woke up, and I felt like my bones were broken into pieces!! And I was damn tired! And my throat was hurting me a lot!! So I sent mom a piece of paper saying, “I don’t want to go to school, and I’m not dressed!” And I went to the bathroom (cause I need the bathroom!!) and she read it, then she got mad! She came and she started talking to me through the bathroom’s door!! she said, “I need a good reason” and I said, “if I go to school they will bring me back home” then she said, “and why?” I said “cause I will cry at school if I go” she said, “thats not a good reason” and was quite quite and quite! And she was telling me that school’s not a game and stuff like that (I was quite) then she got out of the room and she closed the door strongly!!! And then I went back to sleep cause tired! And she went to work!! And I woke up later on, I found myself sick!! (flu) And I throwed up when I woke up! I called dad at his work and he told me to rest and stuff like that… Here’s my problem: I really don’t know how to face mom after what I did!! Cause I was wrong! What should I say when she calls? (dad told her that I’m sick) but still, what should I say??!!! I’m so sad! And I have a super strong headache!! And I cried a lot today! What should I do?!!

Answer #1

You owe your Mom an apology - you’ve got to do a better job communicating:

Growing up is very difficult—for both you and your parents. They remember a little bundle of joy that they held and nurtured as a baby and now they see a budding adult. These days, children face things and know about things that their parents would never have imagined at the same age. The teenagers of today look older, act older and want to be older than their counterparts did just 20 years ago. It is the desire of all parents for their children grow up in the way that they should go (loving, caring, respectful, and being of good solid character). It is necessary that you truly understand that your parents have your best interests at heart. They will withhold privileges, set limits, and raise you to the best of their ability (neither they nor you are perfect), but be Thankful - They Care - many, many, many don’t. Ask them for guidance and seek to understand what truly motivates their decisions. One of the best ways to prove your maturity and prove that you are ready for more trust is to be respectful of your parent’s wishes and accept their guidance. Learn how to communicate love, honor, and respect to each other…I wish you the best !!

Answer #2

ok everyone, here’s what I told mom, my whole body is killing me! my stomach, head, legs, eyes (burning), ears, throat, and I’m freezing from the cold I have! I feel like I’m wearing a tight belt around my stomach! what the hell is happening to me? I started thinking that it would be better if I die! I feel bad, and I need to hug you, but I’m SICK! I’m sorry mama, I was stupid in the morning when I didn’t tell you about all this! I feel gulty! I’m so sorry mother, I’d be lost without you in my life (crying qyitly), I admit that I love you more than anybody else on this planet, (crying quitly) good night my mother… good night :’(

(THIS WAS ALL REALLY HAPPENING! EVERYTHING IS REAL) (on a message_mobiles)

then she sent me back this, I LOVE YOU MY HEART AND I WILL HUG YOU TONIGHT. Don’t feel guilty my love. IT’S OK!

(AND I STARTED CRYING!!) I said, “thanks mother… thank you… :’) you’re the best mother I have ever seen!

and later at night she came and she hugged me! (I was asleep but I felt her!)

Answer #3

Just apologise to your mum. Tell her the truth. Then be like normal again. Good luck! ^^

Answer #4

thanks, amblessed that was helpful!

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