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How to approach an older guy?

I met this kid a while back,and we’ve been hanging out a lot lately.He’s a few years older than me,but hes been telling my cousins that he likes me.He said hes scared to tell me or make a move or anything,because hes 18,and im only 16,so hes scared that Ill turn him down,and flip out because of the age.I wont though,I mean I’m not going to lie,I kinda like him.

How do I approach him,and find out if the rumors are true,without directly asking him? And,then,how do I find out if he likes me,for me,or if he only wants sex? Because its illegal for us to have sex,and Im not really interested in sex now anyways.

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Answer #1

Is your profile outdated? It says you are currently taken. But really no big difference between 16 and 18. When you mention older I was thinking like a thirtysomething, lol.

Since girls mature intellectually and emotionally faster than guys an 18 year old guy may be a better match for a 16 year old. Now this is not the same for everybody, just be careful and if you have sex he will be the one in Jail, not you.

Answer #2

hah,yeah. my profiles wicked outdated,I need to fix it -_- thanks so much though guys :]

Answer #3

em when I ws 13 I went out wid a 17yrs old guy and I know you might be thinking what?? but it went really well,I did like him but it didnt last because of seperation,he ws smart and mature…so if you really like him be honest and tell him you like him,don’t w8 run to him and tell him you like him hun and remember age doesnt matter as long as you love each oda

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