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How come guys never approach me or ask me out?

Hi my name is Queenstar, and I’m a 21 year old Ghanaian female and I’m always dressed properly and I’m also very respectful but if there’s something I noticed, it’s that guys never approach me or ask me out and its something I don’t understand. Is it because they don’t feel attracted to me like they do to the blacks, hispanics, and white females? I mean guys always approach and flirt with my female friends, classmates, and relatives. And sometimes it’s guys I have a crush on. I don’t mean to sound jealous or anything. I mean at age 21 people would have expected me to start dating by now. Everytime I see guys I like and I approach them, they say eww get away from me then they shove me away and call me a pest. It’s as if they prefer my female friends and classmate to me and I never did anything to anyone. Whenever i go out I see lots of girls/women being checked out by guys and being called sexy and all that. And when I walk by, they grow disgusted and say they would never date me and If they were to rate me they would give me a 4 out of 10. I’m not that desperate to be immitating the other girls that behave like whores and I’m not showing off my body either. I really don’t want to be a turn off to guys. What do you think could be wrong?

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there stupid dont worry about it guys can be jerks,,,, plus you dont want that kinda attention anyways you should be yourself and show off your personality. maybe try to be a guys friend first or find someone you enjoy talking to and take it from there i think its best when your friends with a guy first and get to know him more. but hey im pretty sure there are guys out there who think your gorgeous but there to shy to approach you, there are alot of good guys out there that are really shy

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