I want this guy who is much older than me

So I’m 19 years old (almost 20) and I met this guy (who is a salesperson at a car dealership-he sold me my new car that I just got, lol). Of course we sat down for a while, talked, made a deal, etc. We exchanged cell phone numbers and he was telling me how cute and pretty I was. He was calling me almost every day a few times a day, seeming like he was looking for reasons to call me, for example he’d say “hey..did I already ask if your loan went through yet? anyways hows it going?” and he’d just start casual conversation. As I said I am 19. I was told by another sales guy that he is 29. I feel really weird that I am somewhat attracted to him, maybe not in a relationship sorta way but in just a “I want to have sex with you” sort of way. He seems interested too. What should I do? is this normal?

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Answer #1

u have a boyfriend wouldnt that be cheating even if he in jail uve been with him for 4 years and you might throw that all away for a guy you want sex with him does just because your bored doesnt mean you can cheat on him well if he doesnt care or you dont then go out with the guy

Answer #2

yeah, its normal. its legal and everything, its just an age difference. do what your heart tells you, if you are attracted to him, go for it. lifes too short to be hesitant:) good luck!

Answer #3

Thanks for everyones advice =) so heres a little update…I talked to him this morning and he said he wants to take me out to dinner tonight. I’m really nervous. I didnt mention before that I already have a boyfriend who I’ve been w/for 4 years. but he is in jail for another 3 months. so I think I’ve been getting bored waiting around for him. Im not used to going out with other guys since I’ve been with him for so long (especially guys almost 10 years older than me!). should I go? and if he wants me to go back to his place should I? I want to but im so confused =/ and I dont know what to wear, haha

Answer #4

it’s normal. and you’re legal age so you are free to do what you want.

Answer #5

fcuk him till he bleeds

Answer #6

my ex is 12 years older than me, and believe me when youre in bed, age means absolutely NO.T.H.I.N.G.

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