How do I tell my Mum that I smoke?

OK , I want to tell my mum I smoke because I can’t be bothered with sneaking around smoking, she knows I used to smoke, but I am confused if she knows or not , but I want to tell her, because I don’t want her to find out from some one else, and she smokes my dad smokes my sister smokes , and she doesn’t smell it on me when I come in, but at one point my mum went through a phase of searching me when I was going out, and coming in, and I have got to the stage of were I want to get it off my chest because it is stressing me out and I no I need to stop but I will get to that later P.S no silly answers please Thank You =] Tianne x

Answer #1

Well, my friend just started smoking (i don’t) and she was really scared to tell me! Her mom let her (yeah her mom isn’t a very good mom though, and im not saying that yours isn’t but her mom really has problems) but anyways she was scared to tell me but I don’t know why because i already knew… and I just told her that I didn’t care because it’s her body and her lucgs and she can do what she wants to them. And she understood that it is bad for your health but she has some problems going on she told me so she feels like it releives stress I guess. But anyhow I would come out and tell her and say, “Mom, I just need to tell you that I smoke, because I feel stressed out that you don’t know and I want to be truthful with eachother.” Okay, just say you want to be truthful and it is bad to do but you can’t really stop. Okay hope i helped some! Good luck with that.

Answer #2

if she smokes it would be pretty rude if she was angry at you or whatever you are scaared of her feeling.. tell her that you want to quit and how you feel she should understand :)

Answer #3

well no 1 else is answering, so ill give it a shot. well it is probably hard for you to keep bottling this inside. Just say mom, i know it is wrong for me to keep this from you, and you know that i hve smoked before and i quit, but you have probably treid to quit before too, and you kow its not hard and im a teen , and its addicting, so sorry i didnt tell you it earlier

srry thats all i had. ope it helps

Answer #4

DON’T TELL HER she will be so mad. Why do you want to upset her like that? Crazy lol.

But really you need to stop anyway. That ain’t too healthy for you.

Answer #5

YO u talkin bout blazin or u talkin bout ciggeretts.. cuz i do both and my mom hates it. u should just quit it really is a nasty habit. u learn all that shyt in skool bout how it kills u and how it makes ur lungs but wen u get like 40 and u LOOK like your 60 ure guna wish u stopped b4 ure habit got outta control… but by then it’ll be too late. so ide stop now. get sum nicotine patches or sumthin.

Answer #6

The fact that she knows that you used to smoke will make it easier for her to understand. In other words, it won’t be a shocker. The fact that everyone in your family is a smoker will help you as well. You can try telling your sister first, if you already haven’t. Maybe she can break the ice for you. Telling your mom shouldn’t be difficult. Just tell her. She knows anyways…

Answer #7

just tell her everything should be fine as long as your not stealing them from her

Answer #8

well tell her. easy and straight. it would be too good for u or her if u kept snaeking around

Answer #9

come on people tlk 2 meee !=]

Answer #10

She probably already knows. . . . Thats a smell you can’t hide.

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