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Ok so we have been hanging out since july 4th. We have sex but all he ever wants is friendship…I have told him exactly how I feel! But he just tells me he isn’t ready for a relationship. He hang out everyday and I am the only girl he has had sex with this whole time. I pretty much live at his house. What do I do please help!

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Answer #1

If it were me I’d stop contact with him - can you not see that he’s using you? This boy is getting the best of both worlds, he’s getting laid with no strings attached, he’s loving it. I can almost guarantee this will NEVER go any further, that’s how this kind of relation works. You should really wait for someone who respects you and wants the same thing as you, because this clearly isn’t working. You’re just going to dig yourself a deeper hole and get more hurt if you continue with this.

Answer #2

I agree - he’s using you for sex right now because he knows that he can. You have feelings for him and he’s completely using that to his advantage, which is wrong on SO many levels. If it were me in this position, I’d cut him off. He only cares about himself and his feelings. Frankly, you deserve better than that.

Answer #3

He just has you around cus you give it up. sorry

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