How can you marry someone that live in another country?

At best…all you are is a “ticket” to America…and gawd knows what “at worst” might be.

So NO, don’t do it…

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girl… you dont know the real him. he could be some rapeist and you wouldnt know until he was doing it to you. and it sounds like he is just using you to get to america. sorry to be a buzz kill but he will probably just leave after he gets what he wants… you havbe to be VERY careful of who you decide to meet over the internet… good luck with it (=

OH MY GOODNESS!!! I say absolutly do not do it! Even if you want the sex its statuatory sorry bout the spelling. He’s most likely some creep do not do not do not!!! Marry him or go over there!!! And you would have to go there. he’s probably just using you to get to america not because he loves you.

“Brandie I wanna go to America, But I can’t go there and the fastest way for me to get there is for a girl from america to marry me, so will you marry me?”

oh if that’s wasn’t the best way to ask I don’t know what is… I really hope you’re kidding, missy! this guy even TOLD you he just wanted to go to america. that was how he ASKED you. you’re just being used, and he told you that right when he asked. if you do it you’re just looking to get hurt. emotionally, and no doubt physically. just don’t do it. you’ll regret it. I can’t even think about marriage and I’m 18, living with my boyfriend, and have been with him for over a year!

I would say that usually what happens is what your friends said unfortunately. There can be a lot of dangerous people out there, not only here, but also places as far as africa like you said.. So obviously my answer would be no. You shouldn’t do that. honestly, you shouldn’t even consider doing that, or even consider thinking about considering doing that. I think you get my point..

It sounds like he’s using you for the visa to get into america… stay well clear !! A relative of mine married an african man and he came to live with her here in ireland .. thing is the law here says you have to be married for five years to be a full irish citizen and 3 weeks after their five year anniversary he left her with 3 kids and a mortgage she couldn’t pay… people like that will do absolutly anything te get into the country so if I was you I would seriously stay well clear… Xo:)