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Should I marry her or someone else?

I in love with a married women its about 6 years, she lives with her husbank and 2 kids. I want to get married to some else, but at the same time I dont want to loose her because she helped me in life. I want to get married to the one I love since my childhood. What should I do here. can anybody help please.

I feel guilty about the relationship we have because I feel bad about her husband and the kids. Let say if I take her away what about the kids, Some thime I fell that if I have wife and she is having a affair how do I feel. I think some times I should have come in to her life, I can’t help it, if I get married to some else how do I end the relationship that we have.

If I leave her and marry someone else I am afraied that she might do somthing wrong which I have to take the blame for life. I’ve thinking about the girl I love back home a lot how to talk to her and stuff like that.

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Answer #1

Look at it this way…if this woman (the one that’s married) REALLY wanted to be with you and only you, she would’ve asked her husband for a divorce by now. What makes you think that she won’t do the same thing to you that she’s doing to her current husband if you guys decide to get married, for example? Think about that. Plus, it’s not about you and her alone…there are kids involved. Think about it. Do you really need all that drama when you can live without it?

Answer #2

Dear confus, You were here asking this same question once before…I will offer the same advice I offered you then. You must stop all contact with this woman. You need to seek out counselling as she does. This is a very dysfunctional relationship and is wrong all the way around. For it to go on this long is very bizzar…does her husband not know about this? You stated before you pick her up at home and pic her up from work??? This all must stop. How do you end it…by knowing this is very wrong, even strange and tell her you will no longer be having any contact with her. You must realize if she carried this on for 6 years she is also unhealthy. Sue…good luck

Answer #3

Home wrecker. I don’t think you should marry anyone right now, seems to me like you have some commitment issues.

Answer #4

wait..so you want to get married to an already married woman? you need to forget about this girl and move on, she’s MARRIED.

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