How can I raise my self-esteem?

I always feel really fat and really ugly all the time. I know it sounds SO stupid and you’re probably all really sick of hearing this but I have such a low self esteem and I hate the way I look. I need to raise my self esteem but I don’t know how.

Answer #1

ultimately be happy with yourself. OMG IM LOOKING AT your PIX you R NOTTT FAT!!! 1.) shut out all people in your life that make you feel bad 2.) DONT GO ANOREXIC, BELIMIC (sp?) ETC 3.) surround yourself with people who make you feel good 4.) DONT DO DRUGS ETC (your probably not that stupid) 5.) try going to a group where others feel the same as you and theres a therapist or someone who trys to work you through it.

you might think a bucket of makeup and a skirt will make you feel pretty because you think guys will find you “hot” and girls will want to be like you, but if you dont usually wear makeup and skirts you will feel like a pigeon in a flock of flamingos and feel very out of place. just wear what you think looks nice and is comfy. if you are looking for a new style, choose one you like. dont go ganster if you like the prep look. no, dont go scene if you like the gangster look! xD

be who ya want. If you arent used to being talkative or making new friends be sure to break out of your shell and make yourself go up and talk to someone! There are also confidence classes you can take. I hope I helped! :D

Answer #2

Do things for others. Work hard and acheive goals. Work on your skills and master them. All things you have a knack for will help your self esteem. I would do as other people said and stop looking at magazines and comparing yourself. These bodies are airbrushed and abused by bad diets or better yet, plastic surgery. You aren’t that fake. Chin up! :)

Answer #3

Did your coach tell you that your fat???Your very pretty by the way.

Answer #4

Don’t listen to Kamex.. that doesn’t solve the problem. There are a lot of ways you can boost your confidence. Stop looking at magazines! None of those bodies are really what they look like. Every celebrity has the same flaws we do, but they are brushed away my an air brush. Remember that. Another good way to do it (this might sounds silly, but it’s true) Walk around naked whenever you get the chance, you will start to love your body! If you see something you don’t like. learn to love it, don’t bash yourself over it! Everyone has those same flaws you do and flaws are beautiful! it just reminds us that no one is perfect! Besides, most people don’t even notice your flaws regardless if you have them or not =)

Answer #5

wel unless you can afford surgery, you gona learn how to live with yourself. most of us feel that way sometimes, but we also just say “oh, well, whatever” and unless you can’t learn how to say that, I really have no idea what else. learn how to love yourself because if you don’t, no one else will. don’t believe me? then try it. if you treat yourself like a million bucks, don’t expect someone else to.

you’re worth what you believe

Answer #6

You just gotta believe in yourself. If someone says somethin’ hurtful, ignore them.

Answer #7

Stop looking in the mirror. Problem solved.

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