How can I help my girlfriend lose weight without insulting her!

If she brings it up again when it is just the two of you, then say that it isn’t a big deal, but you just want her to be happy. Then maybe just bring up some helpful little hints. idk, I’d say that sounds good. I kinda feel like I am in a bit of a situation like her… only I got over any insecurities around him when I realized that he really loves me for me… something that I have always wanted…. and nothing mattered but me letting myself move on with those feelings and being happy. So maybe just letting her know that you lover her the way she is and that you want her to be happy.

by the way, what kinda tips do you have? haha ^_^

Work out together! Just remember that she isn’t as strong as you. Show her how to read nutritional facts on food. Show her how to avoid trans fats and cut calories.

Take her to get her blood pressure taken (they have a blood pressure machine in most Walmarts in the pharmacy area) It might still be in the “normal” range because she is young. But explain to her the dangers of heart disease if she doesn’t start a habit of good diet and exercise now. Heart Disease is the number 1 killer of women.

At first, I thought your question was about you wanting your girlfriend to lose weight, so I was appalled, but now that I understand the real situation I commend you on loving your girlfriend the way she is and trying to make her know that. Truth is, if she’s insecure, she’s insecure, I doubt she will ever believe you no matter how many times you say it until she grows more comfortable within herself. You could say, “you know what, I love you the way you are and you know that, but I also want to make you happy- if you want for me to help you out in any way to be a little healthier I’d be happy to help but I really don’t see the need to!” If you say it lightly, and make sure she knows you’d be helping her for HER and not because you feel she should lose weight, she should be able to give you an answer and not get upset. That is, if she wants you to help her. If she hasn’t brought up the idea of you helping her out, just keep telling her you love her the way she is- no woman tires of hearing it if it’s genuine.

BUY A WII AND PLAY WII SPORTS AND WII FIT WITH HER so that way she gets her exercise and you get yours, and you wont needa go to the gym or what not and it is quite fun.