Girlfriend Help

I met this Girl about 3 months ago, and we started going out a month ago. She tells me I’m the best boyfriend shes had. Her ex and her went out for a year and a half. Her ex was short, ugly, and treated her with no respect, and hit her sometimes, according to her. And yet, she would hug him, kiss him in front of everyone, hold his hand, give him LOVE.

I’m turning 14 in June, I’m 5’11, I have really nice hair, I’m almost under weight, and all these girls hit on me all the time - so I think I must be pretty damn good looking.

So, I’m the best boyfriend shes had, and I’m good looking.. Why won’t she give me any love?

All the love she gives me is calling me 24/7, kissing me - without tounge, and Sometimes a little hug…

Answer #1

well then.. this is really hard..

but if you arn’t clicking on that level then that may be the probalem

what about how long did you two wait before going out after her and her ex broke things off?

Answer #2

hmm… thats a toughy…

Answer #3

maybe shes afraid that she will give you too much love… I mean if she thinks your the best boyfriend then maybe shes afraid that she might lose you..

sadly I am not her so I don’t know but my guess she is afraid that if she gives you too much love, shell come off as clingy, and why don’t you show her love.. hold her hand and tell her how happy you are to be with her.. and if that doesn’t help, then talk to her about it.. it is obviously picking at you.. so just tell her how you feel I know that guys don’t really like to do that, but if you want her to “Show you the love” then show her the love.. and talk to her..

Answer #4

well if they went out sometimes.. it take a girl to get over someone a little slower then most guys… surprisingly.. its true.. girls tend to get more connected..

but I wouldn’t say our a rebound… sometimes they just need som more time.. like to recover.. because even though you may be her best boyfriend ever.. she was in a relationship with a guy for a year.. sometimes it take time.. so I am not saying give up on her.. but she might be a bit lost… do you understand what I am saying or no?

Answer #5

sh just playing you

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