How do I tell my girlfriend to lose a little weight because I'm worried?

Its not that shes, like, 200 pounds, no not at all, and I absolutely love her and all, but im just a little worried of her. My guess is that shes about… 120.

Answer #1

possibly more though…

Answer #2

120 pounds its not that bad, she sounds fine to me. If you really want to let her know this, sit her down and let her know how much you love her, make sure that’s clear so she does not think that your doing this for some other reason. Then explain to her you would like her to loose some weight and let her know your worries, meaby gather some facts why being over weight is bad? But remember the choice is up to her, its her body. Again, i don’t think that she is over weight, i don’t understand why exactly your worried.

Answer #3

How old is she?

Answer #4

I kinda made a miscalculation, you know, I just geussed from how she looked. anywho, thanks for the advice

Answer #5

120 lbs is nothing to worry about unless she’s pretty short. If she is in good physical shape, weight is much less of a factor as far as health goes. Being somewhat overweight and physically active is healthier than being thin and not exercising.

What are you worried about, regarding her weight?

Answer #6

um 120 sounds perfectly fine for 15 and above, well how old is she? if u don’t mind.and depends is she short are tall? cause my cousin is 5’9 and shes 12 yrs old and she weights 121.. and thats normal..

Answer #7

Go into by telling her about how much you care and love her, and that your a little concerned about her health and want her to stay healthy for herself and her family/friends. You dont want to approach this wrong because it could offend her. Hope it helps some.

Answer #8

How tall is she? 120 is five pounds less than I weigh, so you might be a little off in your calculations =P What’s your concern?

Answer #9

If you were asking how to tell her to gain weight, I’d want to help you.. but asking her to lose weight, especially with her being 120 pounds, yeah that’s a little wrong. If she was 120 pounds, and was in need of losing weight, she’d have to be 3 feet tall lol.

Answer #10

Instead of telling her 2 lose weight why don’t u suggest exercising with her? That way she won’t get her feelings hurt, u guys can do something fun together and you’ll get a work out as well.

Answer #11

i was thinking the same thing :)

Answer #12

Also it would help if you’d help her with support of becoming more active and eating more healther foods. Meaning you’ll eat healther foods too and maybe even exercise with her.=)

Answer #13

if shes around 120 she is healthy, you could suggest exercising with her and giving her lots of support

Answer #14

sorry didn’t read the ones above^

Answer #15

Never ever tell a woman that she needs to loose weight! Instead, you could tell her that YOU want to get fit, and would love it if it could be a thing that the two of you could do together. 120 isn’t bad. Evening walks, swims, and just sneakily cutting down on fatty foods will make her loose a bit. But again, 120 pounds isn’t what I’d call ‘fat’.

Answer #16

i think her weight is perfect at her age :P but if its like 135 then without telling her to lose weight tell her to jogg or take walks with you xD

Answer #17

first off how old is she? second how short/tall is she? because she’s not fat if she’s at least 5’4”

Answer #18

Prepare to not have sex for months.

Answer #19

….shes 120. jeeeeeeeeeez i weigh 128 and i constantly get told im to skinny. i guess it depends on her height.. but still

Answer #20

Pretty sure if she needs to lose weight, then she already knows. And telling her so is only going to hurt her feelings, create a massive ‘don’t you love me no matter what??’ fight and cause a whole lot of self confidence issues. Instead maybe tell her you wanna be healthier and suggest things YOU BOTH can do together, like eating healthier or go out an do something physical (BUT fun) once a week, like a sport you can play together or maybe take a dance or yoga class. She wont feel half as hurt and will appreciate that your willing to go through it with her.

Answer #21

go on romantic walks together and go to a park and swing together things that she wont notic cuz if you say it she will be offended

Answer #22

120 pounds is not fat, its about average.

Answer #23

Don’t make it bate ( understandable ) that your worried and pushy that might make her feel upset and you don’t want that . Just simply join jim and invite her as a partner , gang out in places she wouldn’t think of food .

Answer #24

You can try to push her in that direction of getting healthy without necessarily saying it. Lead her into working out and eating healthy. Even workout and eat right with her.

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