Helping a person cope through death?

My boyfriend has lost his third family member in the last year.

  1. His great gramma
  2. Great grampa ( he died because he lost his wife )
  3. Yesterday his lost his Grammpa.

Does anyone know how I can help him through this. I told him I’m always there and I want to make him better but… I just I dont know how I could help accept if he wanted to talk but he never talks about that stuff cause he knows if he cries infront of me I’ll start crying cause it makes me sad to see him unhappy. I just want him to be all better. The last time someone he new died he said he just thinks their in a happier place so he can get over it.

Answer #1

Hun. It’s extremly hard on anybody to lose a loved one. You just have to let them go through it. I lost my mom and dad in the same year and I didn’t want to talk to anybody. He has to kind of cope with it himself. But, if he starts getting into a depression, definately talk to him. Or suggest a therapist. It will def. help.

I wish you luck. Sorry about your boyfriend =)

Answer #2

there is nothing you can say to make him feel better I suppose but things will start looking brighter for him just tell him its ok for him to cry in front of you and your always there for him xx

Answer #3

But I want to help him.. I want to show that I’m there for him and I dont know how to.

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