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How to cope with my Gramma's death?

hey can anyone help me I need help coping with my grammas death. she is not dead yet but can’t talk anymore and we think she is going to go in the next little while. if anyone has anyhting that can help me pleasae tell me

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Answer #1

I think it would be very good if you could go see her and spend some time just talking with her. Talk about the good times and tell her how much you love her Just because she can’t talk doesn’t mean she can’t hear. This may bring both of you some peace.

Answer #2

Say whatever you need to say to her so you have no regrets. Unfortunately for me, I didnt end up doing that because I was too scared, and now shes gone. Its going to be painful, but you will be stronger after it.

Answer #3

What you gotta do is remember the good times, I don’t think she would want you to be sad. When my grandpa died I was sad, but then realized he wouldn’t like that, he would want me to just keep on living like I did before. Of course it isn’t that easy, but thats the basics.

Answer #4

my advice is to go to church whatever religion you are. Pray for her. I went through a death reciently myself. if you need help, just FunMail me

Answer #5

Im in the same situation, my nana’s got alzheimer’s disease and has recently caught a chest infection that she isnt recovering from. She’s 5’11 and 5 stone 3. The doctor said she’ll be gone by christmas. What you need is closure, Either go to see her and talk to her on her own, telling her you’ll miss her and that, Or if thats not possible, do it at the funeral. I knoww that sounds realy heartless, but you need closure to move on.

Answer #6

my grama died on the 7th of december at 9:11 pm moutain time

Answer #7

thank you guys sooo much

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