Help me deal with multiple times being raped and cutting

You need to call the police and tell them EVERYTHING you remember, its important that you do this because it will give you at least a bit of closure, do it for yourself. If you don’t, these guys are going to keep doing it to other girls, and I really don’t think you want that.

You need to tell someone. Not only for yourself but to prevent it from happening to someone else.

I was raped by my adoptive father for pretty buch my whole life, at least 15 years of what I can remember, I didn’t tell anyone until I was 19. He is now in jail (since october last year) and awaiting trial. A girl from a previous marriage came forward, it happened to her too. If she would have told, maybe it wouldn’t have happened to me.

Rape is about power, not sex. Rapists are usually very controlling people.

Please please start the healing process and tell someone. Congratulations for coming forward here at least, it is very brave of you. I know it’s very scary, but you need to take that next step and tell a trusted adult and go to the authorities.

If you need to talk I’m here for you(or you can contact me on myspace - the link is in my profile)

I know lots of resources that can help.

xox Sika

you do need help rape isnt something you can deal with ny yourself or put to the side and forget talk to someone a friend/parent/teacher/doctor/counsellor…someone you trust also tell your mum about this, she WILL help you through it you also need to report the friends boyfreind to the police what he did was wrong, it wasnt your fault and you need to stop him from doing it again to someone else if you dont remember much of it its likely that he spiked your drink also you must report the pastor who im assuming sexually assaulted you as well it doesnt matter if it happened before you can do something about it this guy is obviosly sick in the head please report him as well and stop him from doing it again most of all you need to talk to someone about this though youll feel better when you tell someone hpow you feel and then you can get help for the self-harm but right now you need to report them both and tell somebody what happened

Go to the cops!!

please don’t stay quiet about this. Those idiots don’t have any right to put their hands on you when you say NO. You need to report this please…don’t be afraid. You should explain this to your mom too it will be a lot easier on you if you tell someone.

you need to not hurt yourself, sadly enough, that’s what most of us resort to when we’re hurt by others. The sad thing is, the cops probably will be unable to do anything about it because it happened so long ago…they can’t charge somebody with rape with no evidence, they can charge them, but they will not get convicted, not without evidence because (not that I think you are) there have been too many girls who called wolf and too many men who have went to prison for rape…who didn’t do anything of that matter. Talk to somebody dear, I am a volunteer at our local rape center and I deal with everybody from somebody who did press charges and women who didn’t…

I know what is like to be raped ypu want belive me but what the hell the real way to help is to let it out is to tell trust worthey people

You need to get a good suport system around you and get some professional help. I know it’s hard to understand everything that is going on but you will get through it and come out stronger. I was raped three years ago by an ex-boyfriend and I never told anyone. Two years after the rape I got really sick and started fainting everywhere. If you get help from a professional, souround yourself with people you trust and just remeber you are not at blame you will pull through this. Best of luck…

Then three weeks ago I was at church and my pastor messed with me and I was like well it happened before so it really is nothing I can do about it.

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Please report this… My 10yr. old came to me about her because that raped her for 3 years, She was very depressed,and withdrawn, even to me and we are BEST friends. She was suffering inside, so she was hurting herself. I called the police , and filed a report, and he was tried as a juvinel, because he was 17yrs. old the last time it happened, and the BASTARD only got 6 months in juvy, and has to get therapy. BIG DEAL!!! Do’nt hurt yourself, honey, hurt him, Bring it out , so that everyone knows what he is… Please get some counciling,my baby did and she has moved on to be a very strong young lady , I was very proud of her for sitting on the stand at 10yrs, and facing him, letting everyone know what he did…
Good Luck & be strong, do’nt let him keep the POWER over you

Report it to the police before it is too late. I was raped when i was really young but i never said anything about it until many years later and they couldnt prove any of it was true called me a liar basically and an attention whore and now thats all they see me as. Its a big deal and you shouldnt have to deal with the pain but honestly cutting.. self harm in anyway is a bad way to deal with pain. I use to self harm, there are times i still want to, but all it does is leave nasty scars on your body and when people see them they will freak out and question why. You shouldnt hide it speak up as soon as possible and tell the cops with as much detail as you can remember even if it is painful. I hope things work out. if you ever need someone to talk to just send me a message