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He's Embarrassed Of Me.

Im 17, my boyfriend is 19 and he is embarrassed of me because of my height. Im only a petite 4”11 and he is about 5”11 but he doesn’t wanna tell his college mates about me as they would take the piss out of him, the people who know about me already joke about him being a pedophile because I look so young. It upsets me that he doesn’t want to tell his friends about me but it also makes me feel bad that he’s gonna get so much shit for going out with me… is there anything I can do?

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Answer #1

wow thats messed. height should definately not define how others think of you haha. your boyfriend should seriously knock some sens into his friends for sure

Answer #2

Offcorse there is nothing you can do hun- you can’t grow over night!

Your boyfriend just needs to accept you and your height. If he’s going out with you then that shows that it’s not a problem for “him” but obviously a problem for his pathetic friends being nasty. Try to not listen to what people think, I know it’s hard but you can’t change, try to accept yourself and love you :)

I understand your boyfriend might get some jip for going out with you but if he likes you he’ll stick around :)

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