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Goody-goody

I have been a goody-goody all my life and everyone tells me that that is great, that I should be proud of that but sometimes I think that I’m missing out on something fun and in ten years when I look back I will sigh and think I should have done more. Is this normal or should I really start to make sure I’m having just as much fun as work?

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Answer #1

ALL GROWING UP I WAS THE GOODY GOODY (SO YOU CAN SAY) MY COUSINS AND FRIEND KINDA TREATED ME LIKE A OUTCAST BECAUSE THEY DIDN’T WANT TO “CURUPT” ME. OKAY SO I REBELLED. I WENT FROM ONE EXTREME TO THE OTHER. I LOST MY VIRGINTY JUST TO PROVE I WASN’T (WHICH I WAS) AND TO THIS DAY I’M KNOWN AS THE “PARTY/WILD” GIRL. YES, I ENJOYED MYSELF AND AT TIMES IT WAS FUN BUT LOOKING BACK AT IT NOW… I GREW UP TO FAST. I HAVE NOTHING TO LOOK FORWARD TO. WHEN YOU GET OLDER YOU’LL GLAD YOU STAYED “GOOD” I PROMISE. YES, LIVE LIFE, HAVE FUN… BUT DON’T GO DOWN THE WRONG ROAD B.C ONE DAY YOU MIGHT WANT TO GO BACK AND BE THAT GIRL YOU WAS BEFORE AND IT WILL BE HARD. THATS MY SITUATION. I MEAN I DON’T RELE REGRET NOTHING B.C IT TOUGHT ME a lot BUT ON THE OTHER HAND I LOST ALL MY OLD FRIEND AND MY OLD LIFESTYLE B.C ALL I DID WAS PARTY AND DO ALL KINDS OF THINGS. NOW… THINGS HAVE CHANGED AND I’M trying TO SHOW MYSELF AND OTHERS I CAN BE THE OLD GIRL I USE TO BE ( I WANT TO BE) HOPE THIS HELPS. SORRY SO LONG.

Answer #2

Bless you for your faithfulness to the Lord in abstinence: waiting for the right man until you are married. The right man for you is also waiting! How wonderful a relationship that will be. God Bless.

Answer #3

BASICALLY… BE YOURSELF. DON’T CHANGE BECAUSE YOU FEEL LIKE YOU NEED TO. BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING … JUST THINK ABOUT IT. LIVE LIFE…HAVE FUN… DO what YOU WANT TO DO. NOT what NOBODY ELSE WANTS.

Answer #4

Have fun you only get to be a kid/ teen once. I say party up and dont get in trouble

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