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would I be concidered a whore?

ok, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months and im 13 and hes 14.he has fingered girls and ate 1 out. but all I’ve done is a lil bit of a make out.but we are NEVER alone!! =[ but I really want to do stuff like, a real make out, maybe get fingered or give him a handjob. but we live in a VERY concervative area. and I dont want to have a rep. of a whore. he thinks im a goodie two shoes. cus I HATE gettin in trouble. but anyways, he has promised me that he would never do anything I didnt want to do. but I dont want him to get bored either. im just REALLY confused. PLEASE HELP!!!

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Answer #1

It wouldn’t make you a “wh*re” because that is someone who sleeps around for money. But does that make this okay? No. In my opinion you’re way too young to be getting caught up in that no matter how long you’ve been dating. At your age 5 months seems like a lifetime but it’s not. It sounds like you want to do this to spice things up, but seriously this isn’t the thing to make a relationship less boring at your age. Try going out with friends, movies, mall, blowing, golfing, etc. there are so many other things. Hes done a lot for his age and sounds way too experienced than he should be which gives me even more of a reason to say this isn’t the right thing to do. Don’t let some boy change your morals.

Answer #2

it wouldnt make you a wh0re.

and maybe you should find a secluded area and try getting fingered, or whatever you wanna do, just to see if you like it, but if you dont like it you can always say no…

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