How do I give my half-sister a chance if I can't stand our father?

I’m just afraid he’s going to put on a face for her :(

He does that with everyone and even convinced a lady cop that I was a stupid child when I tried telling her he was threatening to beat the crap out of me.

Oh wells. THANKS FOR THE SUPPORT.

it sounds like you love her already, because of your wanting to protect her from him. just realize that she probably has not known any father in her whole life, and this is a chance for her to know the person he really is, and not who she imagines him to be. Just try to talk to her, but just avoid talking about him to her.

If she wants to meet him, that’s fine. It does not have to effect you at all. She might not know him like you do. That’s nice that you want to protect her from him in a way, but at the same time, you can’t protect everyone. She has to live her life and find out some things on her own. Maybe in time, she’ll think he’s a jerk too. Until then, don’t worry about it. If talking about him gets you upset, let her know it. If she wants to have a relationship with you, then she’ll find something other than your father to talk about.

look I would hate him to if he hit my mom and me Ide go physcho on him actually but dont do that you dont have to ever talk to him actually but forgive him any way and if he hit you again Ill come down there and handle him my self only kidding and on the other hand you could report abuse to the police im not telling you you should its all up to you but on the sister thing if she wants to meet him its okay it doesnt have to affect you or seperate you.

Maybe you should keep talking to your sister but just don’t get angry over her wanting to be with her father and you should just not speak to him and be friends with your sisters.