Girls, how would you feel about your boyfriend if he lost wrestling to a 12 year old boy, smaller than him?

You’re still on this? If this is still hbugging you for so long since you last asked this months ago, then you should leave him. If you cared enough about him, something like this wouldn’t matter.

I remember you asking this question before. He was beat because the boy was more skilled than him, it’s not about strength necessarily. If you’re going to be so shallow then just leave him already. I can’t believe this is still an issue for you.

Has it occurred to you that he might’ve just let the boy win?

It was competitive. My boyfriend was trying. His face was red and it looked like he wanted to cry.

It was competitive. My boyfriend was trying. His face was red and it looked like he wanted to cry.

Thanks all for the responses.

Well…the boy was a fighter/wrestler, your boyfriend apparently isn’t. The boy probably is stronger than is average size and age group. He may actually be stronger than your boyfriend. If it bothers you i’d suggest get over it…if you love your boyfriend. If it bothers him then maybe he should take some defense lessons and strength train. I wrestled one year in middle school and was stronger than my two older, bigger brothers because of it. A guy can workout with light weight doing high repetitions and tone, show their muscles, but this does not mean he is strong. He would have to lift heavier weight for that. But really it shouldn’t be a big deal if you two love each other. I think he probably cried because he was humiliated. I mean his manhood was show-up by a boy after all.

I agree if it is still bothering you then go and find someone else and let your bf not have your troubled thoughts.