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What would happen if ii secretly dated an 18 year old?

ii am a 14 year old girl and ii have been talkin to an 18 year old boy fer about 6 months now and ii have strong feelings fer himm. my parents hate himm and have threatened himm a few times before to leave me alone but he said he loved me and couldn’t stop talkin to me. so ii was wondering what would happen if ii secretly dated himm and someone found out? ii would hate fer himm to gett into trouble by the police but ii really love himm. ii cry alott because ii don’t know what to do and ii wish my parents understood how ii feel bout himm. they think ii am too young to know what love is but ii disagree. Help ii don’t know what to do :’/

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Answer #1

heey.. I had the same problem, so I’ve had some experience. Im 15 and I dated an 18 yr old around christmas. I was in love with him since I was 10 years old. Hes my friends older brother. I thought I was dreaming when he told me he loved me. I was thinking “omg, an 18 yr old loves me!and blah blah blah” Turns out all he wanted was sex, and I never really “knew” him. He got me convinced that he was right for me.. we actually planned a date when we’d have sex. But the day before I went there he completely regreted our whole relationship because I told people we were dating. He said “I would never date a 14 year old..” Girl, my advice is to break up with him.. an 18 year old could NEVER love a 14 year old. They look at us as kids ..and sex toys. see ya [:

Answer #2

Hey girl~ I have the same issue. :-/ I guess don’t tell anyone and deleat all his messages and what-not so no one will find out…that’s what I do.

Answer #3

Your parents are just looking out for you and they are right to be concerned. You aren’t too young to have feelings but you are too young to have a proper relationship with him (Sex). I’d say it would be better for you to keep away from him but… I know what its like to be a teen. You will probably go ahead and do it anyway. If you do sneak around with him, remember you legally aren’t allowed to have sex. He has to respect this. If he doesn’t, welll… I think you know the answer to that.

Answer #4

hmmm..thanx??

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