Why does a girl just stop loving you after nearly 4 years together?

She didn’t just suddenly stop loving you, there were probably signs along the way, but you missed them. Let her go for now, she may just be needing a break to “see what’s out there” and will be back. Four years is a long time when you’re this young…If she is meant to come back, she will.

In the meantime, you take care of yourself….go out with friends, make new ones….I know it’s hard to motivate yourself when you feel this blue….but it will help pass the time while you wait to see what happens.

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-_- you pwned me.

thnx ithere was signs but i was too blind to see them but now its over i do she says she wants a break alone and well see how things go but i know thts just a girls way of lettin lads down gently.

i dont think all girls are like tht i mean if i stayed with a guy for tht long then i wouldnt suddenly stop after 4 years but idk if ur g/f did that and stayed with you for that long somethings wrong cause when ur with someone tht long u jus kinda feel like you have to love them

It must be painful to have a relationship end when you weren’t really expecting it. It’s bad enough when you can see it coming. First, try not to react. The pain you’re in right now is not going to be this intense forever. So try to breathe through it. Following her around and asking to get back together simply out of this gut reaction is probably not the best way to go about it. Give it some time. Think about it. Your relationship didnt suddenly just end. Things have probably been a little off. Try to figure out what and why. And then think about why you want to be with her, are you really just used to it and it’s hard to make that change. Or is it something you really want. If it is something you really want, then just give it a break. If she decides that she wants to come back, then she will. In the meanwhile, keep yourself busy. You’re going to have time now that she’s not around. So dont just sit at home watching TV. Go do things you’ve wanted to do. Hang out with friends, volunteer, join a club, whatever. And if you cant see yourself doing that stuff, look at it this way, no one’s going to want to get back with a guy who’s sitting around being all depressed. You’ll be alright.

It must be painful to have a relationship end when you weren’t really expecting it. It’s bad enough when you can see it coming. First, try not to react. The pain you’re in right now is not going to be this intense forever. So try to breathe through it. Following her around and asking to get back together simply out of this gut reaction is probably not the best way to go about it. Give it some time. Think about it. Your relationship didnt suddenly just end. Things have probably been a little off. Try to figure out what and why. And then think about why you want to be with her, are you really just used to it and it’s hard to make that change. Or is it something you really want. If it is something you really want, then just give it a break. If she decides that she wants to come back, then she will. In the meanwhile, keep yourself busy. You’re going to have time now that she’s not around. So dont just sit at home watching TV. Go do things you’ve wanted to do. Hang out with friends, volunteer, join a club, whatever. And if you cant see yourself doing that stuff, look at it this way, no one’s going to want to get back with a guy who’s sitting around being all depressed. You’ll be alright.

I mean maybe she just decided she didn’t want to be so serious with a guy. 4 years is a really long time especially since your probably in high school… Not everyone wants to stop exploring life ..

I mean maybe she just decided she didn’t want to be so serious with a guy. 4 years is a really long time and not everyone wants to settle down with a dude so early in life, I mean your only 22 !

ignor that i didn’t mean to say high school

Everybody has beat me to the main punches here ^^^ So all i can say is, Let her free, and if she comes back, than it was meant to be, if she doesn’t, than it wasn’t meant to be….

hate to break it to you, but you cant just stop loving somebody so she must’ve just not really loved you in the first place so it was easy for her to leave you.