How to stop torturing yourself over a past relationship girls?

Alright girls, about a year and a half ago, I was in a relationship with a guy I had never met(yeah,stupid I know) and I fell absolutely in love with him. One thing led to another, and I found out he wasn’t who he said he was. I still fell in love with him,though and I can’t change it. I constantly torture myself over it and look over the hilarious conversations we used to have,and as much as I don’t want to admit it, I miss him. Ladies,how can I get over this and stop torturing myself over him so I can move on?

Answer #1

Take a second and step back close your eyes and think about how great he was to you. Ok now open your eyes and close them again now think about every thing he did to hurt you now keep thos in your mind and think about any other guy you know that you could potencaly date.Ok now open your eys.Any time you start feeling for him do this it always helps me.

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