Do you think my little sister got pregnant for attention?

We just found out that my little sister is pregnant and she is only 15! She has a $hit load of problems like ADHD and Bipolor, and many others…

Anyways she is always begging to attention from EVERYONE! And since we moved here to Oregon, she sleeps around a lot! Do you think that she like asked or was just trying to get pregnant for the attention?

Do you think that I am so angry or stupid that I finally want some attention from my mother? She has 6 kids and I am the second oldest, so I am the only on that does anything around the house and takes care of everyone. I want her to care for me like I am her child and not just a Maid and Inside sitter!

WHAT CAN I DO? I am so depressed. I started cutting myself again and I hate it!!!

Answer #1

well if your sister planned on getting pregnant then umm yeah shes doing it for attention cause no 15 year old needs a baby. but if it was an accident on the other hand then she probably didn’t and it was just a mistake. and I admit people with problems do tend to want attention and never ever give it away…its how they were raised and thats how they expect life to be but when it hits em in the head that its not there and e more they will do and e thing to get it baq. and if you’re the only one that does anything around the house your mom probably apresciates you a lot even though she might not tell you she probably does. and no your not stupid for wanting attention from your mom. I’m the oldest and always get the least attention…its not that I dont want it, I do…its just my mom has 3 other kids to take care of. well so I wish you the best and dont cut face you problems dont take them out on yourself.

Answer #2

Dear courtney1315,

Cutting your self is not going to help you at all, it is only going to make things worse. And it is not good for you, You need to worry less about everyone else and take care of your self.

Talk to your Mother let her know how it is that you are feeling I am sure that she is not meaning to make you feel this way. Be nice and respectful about it but I am sure that she would love to spend some more time with you and that the two of you could work things out.

As far as your sister goes..poor choice really and something she will learn from her hole life, it is hard to tell if she did it for attention or not, there are many reasons that she could have done something like this. What you need to do is Pray for her, let it go, forgive her and be there for her she is going to need a lot of help.

Look at this as a time for all of you to grow closer together and to strengthen your family. as well as a time for you to grow as a sister and individual.

You are a strong person, take good care of your self you to deserve to be happy.

GOD BLESS”‘

Dark Wolf

Answer #3

the only thing you can do is sit down and talk to your mother and let her know that you don’t feel like a child to her… but don’t say it in a mean way. just say that you feel kind of distance from the family and that you want to be closer to her. You need to let her know you are not super woman and it’s not your job to take care of the rest of the kids.

Answer #4

hey ok look im the youngest and I really doubt that she was trying to get attention maybe trying to get love from somene is more like what she is doing … but as for your problem I have been there and cutting will not help thats the first thing that you should stop then stop and think do you have to be the one who helps everyone in your family ? your not the mother let you mom take some of the wrap for it k im here to talk no matter what k ! kattey p.s. im in your sisters old position but mine a little diffrent and I dont want the kid this situation scares the hell out of me !!!

Answer #5

hey all you people that are saying she is 15 and should not be having a baby you guys should mind your guys own buisness I am 15 and pregnant

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