How to deal with an awful little sister?

im 15 and shes 12. really hate her. shes a little hooch, always get detention, wants every piercing possible and shes taller then me and always gives me a rough time. shes evil & rotton , I cant stand her. my mom always tells me if she punches me I can punch her back. just cause she knows the way she is but she always abuses me by grabbing under my eyes and squeezing and everything, so about 10 minutes ago she punched me in the back and I lost my breath, so I swung my arm around and punched her in the nose, knowing her little miss drama queen she screamed as loud as she could and my mom still got mad at me and I tried to explain to her that she told me I would hit her if she hit me. any advice on how to deal with little sisters ?she realy makes my life miseriable =[

Answer #1

well not all sisters are like that…they have the occasional argument but it sounds like you two are beyond that! well its fair that if she hits you you hit her back it dosnt do the situation any good…because then youll just get into a pattern. the problem wont stop, it will only get worse because your both hitting each other. it sounds like your sisters rebelling quite a bit or could be doing all this for attention even. you really need to tell your mum that she needs a bit of help and an attitude change. because she wont change if you both hit each other one after the other! at 12 though its important that you get her to change her behaviour now, before shes a lot older and its to late. you could be saving her life even…so id suggest going to your mum and having a talk about things you could do to help her…counselling might work but it might be hard to get her to go…if you cant think of anything perhaps look on the internet and browse through sites that suggest ways to help misbeahaving teens

Answer #2

Don’t argue back, control your own temper. When you start arguing you both grow frustrated and angry then you lash out by hitting. Let her say her piece, listen with an open mind. Honestly consider her feelings and what she says, DON”T GET ANGRY! Then let her understand that you know and understand what she is saying and move on with your day, don’t dwell on it. By taking the higher road and controlling yourself you lead by example and she may change her attitude and demeanor as well. You cannot change others you can only change yourself and how you react to situations. When she yells and screams don’t raise your tone and scream back keep your cool and don’t reply with biting remarks to hurt her feelings, turn the other check as Jesus would say. This is the only method that will work, talking with your mom will not change the way your sister act’s it will only build resentment. You can try to talk to your sister but if you continue to talk in the same fashion you have been it will lead you nowhere. Right now trying to change her all your efforts basically amount to banging your head against a brick wall. Have you ever heard the definition of insanity? Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results each time. You have to change yourself first as it’s the only option you really have.

Answer #3

thats not fair that you got into trouble! I would try to stay away from my sister as much as possible. or talk to her about it. or if you want to actually do something about it, you should devise this whole miraculous prank that would totally embarrass her or something so that she’ll know your the boss. or you can just ignore her or talk to her about it like I said before. I think the latter would be more fun tho…

good luck!

Answer #4

If she doesn’t want to be reasonable neither should u. Don’t hit her or anything cs thats where she gets all of her satisfaction, just laugh or take the piss out of her if shes being a brat. Just show her your her older sister which means she should show you a lot of respect. If it is reaally bad then I would go to the extent of embarrasing her as then when she does something you could just bring it up then I bet that would shut her up lol x

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