What if your dad calls you after 4 years?

okayy, thanks for that. =D x

hun i bet that is very hard for you but honestly i think you shouldn’t talk to him for a while give him the silent treatmeant, he doesnt deserve u talking to you after 4 yrs and only coming for a place to stay, if anyone does the talking it should be him and he should be telling you he is sorry? keep in touch let me know how everything turns out, best of wishes <3

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Do talk to him. Ask him the same questions you’re asking us. Be honest about how you feel - after all this time you have nothing to lose and he may listen and realize how selfish he has been. What if you can make him change? Fathers are just people themselves, not superheros like we want to believe. They are just as flawed as anyone and make mistakes. Tell him what you think - and good luck.

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your welcome anytime. feel free to ask me anything that is what i am here for ;) <3

my dad buggered off over 15 years ago and i dont care 1 way or the other if he phoned or not. hes dead in my eyes for leaving my mom to bring up 3 boys on her own.

in the end its your choice if you want to give him another chance. personally i wouldnt.

okayy..

so tell me what happend?

You said it right, he IS your dad. Yeah, he made some mistakes for sure, but he still came back. I don’t think he ever really forgot about you, but rather he was trying to move on to something he thought was better, but really wasnt. I wouldn’t completely shun him out. Take it slow and talk with him, try to build back what you can of your relationship, and i think someone mentioned it, but ask him this same question, and see what kind of answer you get.

Rite. He stayed for a couple days and I tryed to talk about my school stuff and not get into awkward conversations with him. He seemed nice enough but never really spoke or asked me the questions, I was the one doing the talking. Then one day last week I woke up and was going downstairs to get breakfast and my dad is usually sitting in the kitchen reading the paper or something but he wasn’t there. My mum walks in and I ask where dad was. She said that he had left. He left without saying good-bye AGAIN…The first time my dad left I was too young to remember him anyway, but this time I will never forget. I was heartbroken, but I’ll get over it soon, because he was scum, he IS scum. He is currently staying at one of his mates houses, but if he ever comes to our house again, well I will not be answering the door.

i told you