What to do when your dad is calling you things you don't say to any child?

dont call him back.. you have to try and ignore =/

Call him back?!? Oh no, I meant calling you things, not calling over the phone (if that makes sense) my dad lives with me and my mom

Im always gettings C’s ( I know i need to improve) but atleast its a pass LOL and yhh you need to try to ignore him… if hes always like that its better to ignore.. and tell him your will try better and stuff??

What does your mom think about this? And if she doesnt agree with what he does, why not leave him? No child needs a father like that, a father is supposed to be a MAN. no ands, ifs, or buts! But for now ignore him, its all you can do. I hope things get better!

Yeah, thanks. He’s also the type that believes women she being doing the house work. I mean the least he could do is take out the trash “looks like trash needs to been taking out” uh you pasted by the trash, you could’ve taken it out but instead you had to come from down in the basement all the way up stairs to the end of the house just to tell me to “take it out”

i meant to just swear as he does to u

I agree with Marena , Talk to your mom about it and if she doesnt agree with it then its not a reationship she should be putting her family through . I have been down that road . My mom was with my dad for 11 years cause she couldnt leave him . Dunno why , but she jus couldnt . And when i was 9 my mom and dad finally got divorsed , and i think its not healthy be in a situation like that . And a man is not a real man if he can hurt his family in anyway ! So my best advice would to talk to your mom bout it .

tell your mom

He’s spurning his greatest treasure when he treats you like that, Rai Shauna. Is he ever physically violent with you or anyone in your family? And what’s your mom’s role in all this?

Talk to a counseler at school if you feel that he is verbally abusing you and your mom. Does the rest of your familly know about his ways with you girls? What do they think? can they help? If they can please let them. You should not have to deal with that sort of thing.