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How to get my big bro to treat us and our house nicely?

I have a big brother thats 21.this is sad.he lives at home does not want to colloge. all ways has the den mess up.(we live in a two story house)has food all over the place. his room is just …it’s A IT. it looks like a trash can.he takes the dishs and has them in his room for days with FOOD still in them.my dad gets up at 4:00am.so he has to have some thing to eat .cause my mom is still sleeping.he buys stuff to eat but my brother eats it.and my dad tells or ask him not to.my dads very nice too.then I think he’s gay too.I found gay mags.,porn vids,sex toys,ectsin his room.and you know when you get on a porn webs and it then mess’s up the comp. well that happen 5 times.now we have the 2.4 GHz that make the internet work .my dad tells me to never keep it out. and some time my brother makes me keep it out.(not any more cause I kicked him down there)and he said that he deos not like to swollol his sitp.so he sitps on the caepet!!!he calls my mom and dad a b#cth.and they could kick him out or have someone pick him up and take him away.I try to put up with him but it’s not working.all my friends have good brothers and sisters it makes me feel bad. infact his the only bad thing in my life.and I want my mom and to be happy. I NEED HELPPP

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Answer #1

there might not be anything you can do about it. Some people just don’t have any motivation. I know someone, same situation except he’s 25 and living in his parents basement. he’s been like that for years. If you want actual results your parents would most likely have to kick him out or threaten it at least. Your his younger sister, put him on a guilt trip, that might do it too.

Answer #2

Have you tried talking to him about his feelings? maybe he feels rejected, or like your parents dont like him. I sure felt that way about my parents when I was young, I wasnt in the same situation as your brother but still I felt they were rejcting me and that hurt. I don’t think “kicking people down there” is a good way to solve anything…and if he’s homosexual, thats his choice btw. I think he should leave for his own sanity -not because you’re a bad family but if he acts like that, it means he’s not happy- maybe talking to him about how nice it is to have your own place would convince him…well, good luck with that!

Answer #3

Maybe your brother is going threw a lot of stuff he is 21 so he might want to get a job..But he doesn’t need tog o to college if he doesn’t want to, no-one can make him do something thqta eh doesn’t want to do. He might just be lazy thats all he probably wants his family to be there for him he is scared to move on with his life..

But just try and talk to him and be calm juts tell him how you feel.

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