Am I cheating on my husband by talking like this online?

I’ve been chatting with a man that I don’t know through IM and it’s gotten to be very sexual.(He found me through my 360 page. I don’t have nasty pics of me, but he finds me “hot as fuk).) I am married and feel a little bit uncomfortable talking like that to another man. However, the talk is so hot, that it makes ME hot and now my husband and I are having more sx. I told him about this guy and he was mad at first. But, since he knows that all of the sx talk makes me so hot, he doesn’t seem to mind…my question is, am I cheating on my husband by allowing myself to talk dirty, sexy, nasty sx with this other man online? I mean this man describes a sexual encounter with me and what he is doing and what I am doing back in return. It’s very exciting and thrilling to be “spoken” to like that and it turns me to my husband to get the real thing…

Answer #1

Well, if you believe in the bible ( I don’t know if you do or not), it says “so thinketh in your heart so are you”. Which means if you think about cheating and doing something with another man in his eyes you are actually doing it. I do believe online “sex” is cheating.

And on the other hand, this other man may be falling for you. Does he know that you are just playing him, and then going and having sex with your husband? Sounds pretty hurtful to everyone around to me.

Answer #2

ONE. Dirty talk turns everyone on.. lol so why dont you have your husband do it. tell him things you like and he will say them for he wants to get to the gold. I know my boyfriend loves when i do that to him and he does it back. Also i dont think your cheating on him.. i’m only 15 but isn’t cheating consitered kissing makingout s ex not dirty talk. I think your ok as long as you dont go f*ck this dude. ALSO talk to your husband.. see if he reallys minds.. really he should be the one talking dirty not this online dude.

Answer #3

If I was your husband I’d be pretty upset. I would feel like I wasn’t good enough for you… funny how you guys have MORE fun now. If I was your husband I would think there would be much less if not none. How would I know for sure that you were being faithful to me? This guy you’ve met online is sick, stop talking to him. If you get so turned on by talking dirty, talk dirty with your husband. I’m SURE he wouldn’t mind.

Answer #4

First of all I think you should stop talking to this sick perverted freak online..he may be some maniac freak over the internet. whose know he might pop out of nowhere some day and thats when you’ll realize that it is wrong to sex talk with someone over the internet who you dont even know.

Answer #5

I agree with them. you NEED TO STOP TALKING TO HIM before you’re husband finds out. if that happend to me I would stop talhing to that perverted freak! I’d tell him to leave me alone before I do somethig. he probly is in his 40tys or maby older! stop that bastard from talking to u!

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