Why should I consider a threesome with my husband?

I found out recently that my husband made six profiles for online dating. He denies he was searching for anything but he just told me that his interest would be a threesome with another man. He wants to watch me have sex with another man.we have been married for 16 years now. I lost and confused,my emotions are mixed and I don’t want to share. I think he wants this so we can both have sex with anyone. I don’t believe when two people are married that they should want to have sex with others. Please give me some advice I have been through so much with him ,ha has cheated once that I know of.

Answer #1

It’s a really fun thing to do and I’ve done this all my married life. My wife had the same reaction at first as it’s out-of-the-box but now she loves it when we do that. She loves variety and feeling something new. Good luck! Enjoy it-maybe it’s you who needs to be more open…

Answer #2

If you really don’t feel comfortable doing it. Then don’t. 16 years is along time, He should know you and respect you and all of your feelings. That’s a reallly hard thing to ask someone to do for them. It not only messes with your body but your mind and emotions to. If you’ve thought about it enough and are completely against it then I would talk with him. It seems like when men and women expirment in things like that it only goes into further things and it’s harder for the man to want to stop.

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