Did my girlfriend talk about sex with this guy online?

She’s flirting with men on line for the ego boost and attention.

But at the same time, if her heart were content and true to you, she wouldn’t seek this kind of interaction out with strange people on the internet.

In my opinion, chatting online, msn, myspace (i have one too, but it really is for good friends and family) with random people–this is a sign of deep emotional neediness and immaturity. When you’re online, your insecurities don’t show. These “relationships” are not real–they are fantasy. For some reason or another, your girlfriend is in that fantasy fulfillment phase of her life. It usually take few years (or a few burns by strangers online) to get to realizing that internet exchanges are about as sexy as doing the dishes.

So I wouldnt go so far as to say she’s cheating on you. However, she’s not being faithful, respectful, or loyal to the sanctity of your reltationship and is seeking out fulfillment. Oh, and LYING is a big deal to me, too. I’d dump her strictly for that with no other reason needed. She’ll just make excuses and stall and BS you if you make the internet your bone of contention with her. I’d just say, “You lied to me. I don’t take that. It’s over.”

These liars, con artists, abusers and BS artists need to start having consequences for their actions. We just keep accepting their crap, taking them back, trying again, giving second chances. Tell her she is now free to roam cyberspace and talk abut diddling herself all she wants with strange men whacking off to their computer screen who will never hold her hand, tell her she’s beautiful (and mean it), bring her soup when she’s sick, or make real love to her, in the real world.