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My mom doesnt help me with my son my babys dad supports the two of us but we dont live together he lives with his mom and I live with mine. My mom is always telling me how to raise my son shes trying to do for him what she couldnt do for my brother cause she gave him to his gma I really dont want to live hereim still attending school and working but I want to live with my babys dad can I move out of my moms house? I Live In San Antonio Texas Bexar County

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Answer #1

My advice to you is to talk to your mom about it what you think as well as your baby’s dad and his family as well. You are not 18 yet so you cant really move out if your mom doesnt approve of it. I encourage you to keep going to school and fighting for a better future for you and your baby. But yeah talk to them about it. good luck! God bless you.

Answer #2

Well young lady it is not your mother job to help you raise your son you were the one who spread your legs and get pregnant, I was pregnant at 16 and had my first when I was 17 my son and I have the same birthday. Any who I lived at my mothers and I felt so bad for putting her threw all of that. You can find a job and try to save up enough for an apartment and get your mother to co sign for you. You really need to stop expecting her to help you because I’m pretty sure if it were up to her she would not of wantted you to get pregnant so early. Grow up your a mother now It took some one to sit down and have a real harsh talk with me to set me back it to reality. I was a young mother and By the time my son was one and a half I had my very own place and sure I did not have a lot but it was atleast mine. Please try to think on how your mother feels. She was already done having kids she should not have to raise another one. This is you and your baby’s daddys reasonability so start acting like it. Yours truly, Demika Ray

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