who do ya think should get the money?

well mom and grandma might be moving out of state soon and they get like a check or something for me, i think it like S.S.I or something. But they’re talking about “ oh uhm we will send you like 200-300$ every month if you stay here”, now the thing that got me is like ok wait so you telling me ya moving out of the state and giving me a choice to stay here, but yet i can’t get the full amount? Do they know i probably gotta pay rent, buy clothes, shoes, school, food, stuff to wash my clothes. Like come on really so my mom greedy childish self, gonna say “ Oh well we should just cut him off and let him find a job here then” wtf if wrong with you seriously… oh yeah that nice cut me off and who know if i don’t find a job i’m screw then. I’m not a greedy person but my brother want me to get a little more of my money, if i do i probably can stay with him, right now my choice is my sister ( that worst then hell) or my aunt ( not trying to do that). I don’t think my mom is counting the fact that I gonna have to depend on myself to get most of the things i need, taking bus around town cost money ect. ect……. even to me 200-300$ don’t sound enough like ya not gonna be taking care of me when ya leave so why should ya even get to keep a dime of it, it should go to me. I really think staying down here is the best choice …. and it sound like m y mom and grandma just want the money to have some extra money… advice?

Answer #1

Have you told them bout all the stuff u will have to pay? Some people get so wrapped up in thr own stuff to realise anything else, so I wud sit down with them and talk it out, I think u shud get ur whole check wheather or not if u go with them or not, I hope that helps

Answer #2

trust me… my mom is to dumb to listen

Answer #3

Oh one of those types, they do wat they want and don’t care wat others have to say about it

Answer #4

You should get it

Answer #5

yes it just annoying like i can stay here and start my life early, start depending on myself and learning how to manage my time and money which would benefits me better in the future

Answer #6

If you can’t afford to live on your own, you don’t. It stinks, I know, but the money is going to your legal guardians so that they can take care of you while you live with them. If I’m thinking the right thing, none of the money technically should be going in your hand.

Answer #7

In my experiance for people like that u need to sit them down, just u and them, and basically treat them like thr 5 yrs old, u have to have a serious conversation and they must understand ur serious

Answer #8

If your mother is not giving up legal custody of you then she can do what she wants with the money. Personally I think it should go to whoever you live with to help pay for living expenses and food. Whoever you end up with should seek legal advise as to whether they can have the funds automatically transfered to them. If you need extra spending cash then you could get a part-time job.

Answer #9

definetly you!!!!! good luck with it!!!!!

Answer #10

Yea, obviously if they’re moving out of state they have no right to collect ur ssi, cheapest thing to do, talk to a judge.

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