Is it wrong of me to get angry with my mom and cousins about giving our boat away (read)?

I don’t think it is wrong what-so-ever! That boat will always cherish the amazing memories that you and your dad shared. I wouldn’t want it to go to someone who wouldn’t take care of it and/or just wanted it because they usually get everything they want. If I were you, I would just sit my mom down and talk to her and tell her that you feel that you should be a part of who gets to have the boat or not, or if you even want to sell it quite yet. But I agree that it would either be better to have it as it is or give it away and not have to see it again. Not have to hand it over to someone that you barely like anyways and have to stand by and watch them brag for finally having it.

I understand your position and think it’s reasonable…..unfortunately you’re not the one ‘in control’…..you made your case/provided your input at least…..best to move on and put your emphasis on other things of precious memories….Wish you the very best !!

Maybe your mom is thinking one way, and you another. She may think the right thing is to keep your dads things in the family by giving it to your cousin. But obviously you have other feelings and emotions about it. It’s best you let your mom know how seeing the boat on a daily basis is going to affect you and your emotions. It’s a thing, and not worth everyones well being over. The memories you have with your dad and his boat are really what holds the real value and importance and nobody gets to have that, but you.