Don't you absolutely hate this?

no thats normal you dont want to seem attention starved but you also want attention if that makes any sense lol

normal. if you wanna tell them ten if they say okay after you say nothing then just be like well actually there is something do you mind if I tell you about it it would make me feeel better letting it out or someshit

actually to tell you the truth..every time I have a bad day, and someone asks me whats wrong and then I say “nothing”, the person NEVER says “okay”. they want to hear whats wrong with me

ikwym . I hate that too , its annoying . maybe you should just tell them “whats wrong” thee first time they ask thoe , shrug .

Yeah, sometimes I wish people would push, but sometimes you gotta give them a break, they may not think you want to talk, or they may think they’d be annoying you if they kept pushing. People cant read minds. So if you want help, if you want someone to talk to, ask for it… Hinting at stuff rarely ever works…

aww no I dont think thats weird at all! I completly understand, my friends are always doing that and my family. its just like saying im ok but were really not. :) perfectly normal. good question lol xxx

Possibly they’ve been there, done that - they did follow up ‘now dont lie to me , I know somthing is wrong, can you talk to me about it’ but they got rheir head bitten off by the screaming ‘I said Nothing !!’ - many today carry around that attitude - so although the person genuinely cares, they become gun-shy…can’t blame ‘em, these days I don’t follow up either…it won’t be appreciated in most cases.

I really don’t like it when people do that to me…it makes me feel even sadder:( and no it doesn;t sound weird…and people do it all the time so I guess its normal.

No, it doesn’t sound weird, I completely understand what you mean. Sometimes its not easy saying whats wrong and how youre feeling, and you desperately want them to question further and be able to understand. It just feels as if you cant tell them because they may not be interested, or they dont have time.

this actually happend to me.. I told sum guy, (hu means a lot to me) what has happend, and he just said sorry to hear hun.. and then I texted back with more stuff and he just didnt bother replying back.. and then at the end of it me and him ended up argueing because he was going on about aload of rubbish stuff. when I wernt in the mood for it’ and because the fact he wernt intrestead in how I felt or asked anything about it I bited in to him.. but it made him realise that I needed some-one to talk to so he left me an offline message sayin he’ll be on to night if I want to talk.. but its abit lateee Now!! But I stil thought it was nice, sometimes you have to corse an arguement for them to realize

big baby, just answer their question the first time, dont wait for the “ I want them to ask me…” jazz.

big baby, just answer their question the first time, dont wait for the “ I want them to ask me…” jazz.