Would you go out with a girl if...

I just read what you said about him being a nice guy.

Well, with my friend I mentioned earlier, the guy she went out with was a really nice guy until she started dating him, then he started using her and taking advantage of her. Maybe he’s just acting nice so that you’ll be more intrested in him and make it more likely that you’ll put out for him.

I have one question though, how old are you anyway?

Okay, well, I hope hope you make the right decision and I hope you stay safe with whatever that decision may be. Good luck!

I agree with Mandyloo, I think you’re being used, don’t let someone take advantage of you like that, it isn’t fair to you, or your body. I have a friend that was recently in a relationship where he was only using her for sex and I tried telling her to get out of it before something bad happened, but she wouldn’t listen. If you go through with this, once he gets what he wants, he’s going to leave you and just make you unhappy. He might also tell his friends that you’re easy so they might take an interest in you for the same reasons he did. Nothing good can come from it and the more you do it now, the less and less special it will be when it’s actually with someone you love. I think you should get out of that situation immediately, that way you don’t end up being thrown to the curb later and you’ll actually find a decent guy that cares about you. I wish you the best of luck with whatever decision you make.

Ask him out then. Don’t ask him the part about blowjobs. Just ask him out. Then you’ll see if he likes you for you. Not for your promiscuity. Even if you like him, doesn’t mean you should degrade yourself in everyway. Sweetie, I’m sure you deserve someone much better. Not someone that you are just his sexual play thing. Do you really want a boyfriend that when you come round he just pulls of his pants and expects you to get on your knees? Then when he’s finished he tells you to go home. You’ll end up hating yourself and him. You’ll start to resent the actually nice boys in life. And expect them to be all the same. Before sex or sexual activities, you need to build a relationship first. Love and trust are needed in relationships. ‘Cause he won’t stand up for you when everyone finds out the offers you give. Boys don’t love girls ‘cause they give it away. They love them for their smile, their laugh, them being them. If a guy is only with you for what you do - he’s totally not worth it. You don’t deserve this. Do you want to branded a little *hore? Do you want everyone to think of you as nothing more than a prostitute. That’s what this is. Giving out things for a price - but your price is that your trying to is for him to love you. You can’t get love like that. Honestly, please don’t do it. You’ll regret it. And hate yourself for it later.

Goodluck.

The point it is degrading and you will probably come back crying and feeling used. Sex in any form needs to be done when you are in a committed relationship with someone you love, not just because some infatuation or to be cool. Anyway if he is a decent guy he would say no.

god, some people are taking this hypothetical question out of control.. sex has nothing to do with love. sex is lust. girl, if you want his dick in your mouth, go for it. he wouldnt go out with you just because you promised bjs 24/7. some guys have respect. :)

Why would you do that? I agree with mandyloo. Basically you are bribing her to have sex with you. I would say no don’t go out with her. What is the point of a relationship like that. And plus if a girl agrees to a compromise like that who knows where she’s been. That’ s just stupid.

Sweetie there are better ways to get a boyfriend. Rather ask him out to a movie, not by offering him a blow job. plus if he says no then he will probably tell his friends and you will be the laughing stock of the town.

Doesn’t mean that you should do this. Is that all you want out of the relationship. Plus what type of respect will there be if you do this. Just ask him if he is interested in a proper relationship.

Haha, why would you even do that. That’s ridiculous. Your bribeing someone to date you, so that means they would be dating you purley because you are hooking up with them and nothing more. Silly.

If he’s that shallow then yes he will go out with you just because you would give him what he wants everyday and not because he actually likes you. Sorry to break it to you but he’s not a nice guy. He’s just using you.

Im a chick and id date a guy for head on the regular. Hell yea!!! I dont care if he is ugly id just close my eyes and think about will smith

It doesnt’ matter whose point of view you want - your going to get everyone’s opinion when you post on a public site.

Also, informer is a man and he agreed with us.

Why dont’ you have some respect for you body and find someone who will love you for you - and not only our freakin mouth.

Respect your body more. Young girls forget what a temple it and that you shouldn’t just give it away so easily.

He probably will, that is what is so bad. Hopefully he won’t go out with you because of the offer. Seriously why do you need a boyfriend so desperately?

no I wouldnt… maybe id be evil enough to go out for one day but I wouldnt want a girlfriend like that… the girl is lowering herself, dont you have some sort of self respect left?

girl, you are young and you have all the life ahead of you, please understand that what you are thinking of doing will brand you for the rest of your school life and will make you look cheap… maybe you can ask him out WITHOUT the giving head part… and as for opinions a girls opinion is way better than a guys is (on this subject)

as a guy im telling you not to do it…even if you want a boyfriend badly it still isnt a reason to go that low

Are you asking this because that’s what you are planning on doing, or are you just curious?

Well, either way, I would say no, because I would think that if someone is asking me for that, then I’m probably not the only person, and it’d be weird kissing someone knowing that some other guy’s genitals have been in her mouth. Also, I think that’d be a pointless relationship because there would be nothing between you two except for blowjobs, and those aren’t a very good thing to base a relationship on in my opinion.

Good luck with your sexual “relationship”, you can’t even call it that though. It’s nothing more than letting yourself be used.