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Would my mom b able to tell?

Ok so I am a 16 year old girl. And I am on the pilll. But just because I had period problems. So my mom put me on the pill. And I have had a boyfriend for 2 years. And he would have sex with me in a second if I said yes. I dont really want to tell my mom tho. So will she b able to tell if I had sex. Like do you walk weird. Or anything ike that. I dont really want to tell my mom. And I am old enought to think for my self and I think im ready.

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Answer #1

I hate to make assumptions about people I don’t know and situations I don’t fully understand- but I’m going to go ahead and say that your mom probably already thinks you two are having sex. If she put you on the pill, even for period problems, she probably assumes the two of you now feel safe enough to start having sex. Moms were teenagers once too… I don’t personally think that 16 is ready- because should you get pregnant (my cousin got pregnant once with the pill, once with the nuva ring, and once with mirena) on birth control, you cannot financially or emotionally support a child. That’s why I think It’s best to just WAIT until you are a little older. Plan for those “what if’s” in life, ya know? KUDOS to you for waiting already. It takes a strong moral compass to overcome physical urges. When I first had sex, it wasn’t entirely consentual, and it wasn’t painless because I wasn’t ready. I did have quite a bit of swelling, bleeding, and pain afterwards the next day. I walked like I was saddle sore from horseback riding all day. I avoided my parents, (I had an unwarranted sense of shame), but my friends were able to pick up on it. I don’t think that you would walk weird unless he was unnecessarily rough with you. I don’t think anybody would notice under normal circumstances.

Answer #2

no you do not walk funny or anything like that, there will be no way of telling unless.. she talks to your boyfriend or something!! lol. hmmm actually when my friend first did it it ached her inner thighs because of his hips, which I suposse could make you walk funny! hahahahaa, but NO really you dont. if you told her she would gain more trust in you though, you could tell her your ready, and thinking of doing it some time soon, so your not just like im doing it. and it wouldnt be too shocking :) if you’v been with him that long, sh’ll understand, she might allready think your doing it, so I think you should tell her, it will make your mum and daughter realtionship stronger :) x

Answer #3

Not to mention, if you have to ask this question, you are definitely not ready.

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