Will he leave his wife?

Ok my guy is married!!! HOLD ON AND LISTEN BEFORE YOU JUDGE!!! Ok so here’s the story. We’ve been seeing eachother for 3 months, he’s my step dad’s nephew, his whole family knows and is very supportive of us!!! His wife knows and we’ve talked she’s glad he’s found someone else, she’s been messing around on him for two years. I’m the first person he’s been with. But he’s still living in the house now lately I’ve really been on him to leave the how, he says he’s gotta figure out what to do with the kids, cause he’s the one that always watches them. Because the wife works nights and when she’s not working she’s out. The only mother I know that NEVER spends anytime with her kids. But anyways, I first told him he has until Oct. 18th to move out then I told him he has until the 1st of Oct. Now yesterday I told him everything on how I feel and where I see this going and how it’s unfair how he’s been putting me through this, and how he says he loves me and wants to be with me and then puts me through this. Then he started talking about the kids and blah blah…I told him to stop using the kids as an excuse. I told him he needs to move out, if not for me, for himself she’s been cheating on him for two years and he’s still there I asked him how pathetic that makes him look. But do you think he’ll come through??? He has until this Friday to have this talk he’s saying he’s going to have with his wife, or it’s over…Do you think he’ll come through???

Answer #1

“asked him how pathetic that makes him look.”

With all due respect, you look just as pathetic. He can stay where he is with the kids if he wants - it is his right. He and his wife may even be able to work out their relationship if “the other woman” were gone. Please leave the man alone and let him make his own decision. This is tough for him already as it is; there’s no need for someone with a self-righteous air to keep on nagging him.

Answer #2

Im sorry hun> but your story isnt any different! You think its different because your family, and his wife support this? HES STILL MARRIED! So does his wifes infidelity justify him being unfaithful? 2 wrongs wont make everything right! You need to leave this guy alone, until he does become available! Like the saying goes>”Actions speak louder than words”!

Answer #3

Give up, move on, stop dating married guys…

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